are you a good listener?

Yay! Thank you for the complement. :-) I didn't know I was a "great listener". Hmm, yeah coz some people are not interested with our problems/lives. Just like your friends, not all friends are true. You can have a lot of friends, but only few will spend time listening to your heartaches. :-) Like I encountered a friend; we're not close really, but she tells me her worries and thoughts, and here I am always listening and telling some advices. The sad part is, she is self-centered. Whenever I am worried, and problematic, she usually never bother to ask me. There was one time I told her my problem, but in the middle of the conversation, she interrupted with my story-telling and ask me to speak directly to the point(because I really speak slow, and I was teary). I mean, yes I was talking my problem out, but isn't it inappropriate to say something like that to your friend who has a problem? I think no. You should be patient/ willing to hear the whole story, no matter how pointless it is ( considering you are a good friend, but if not, then she should not bother then). From that time on, I got tired of being patient, then I put a little space between our friendship because I hate to be somebody else's pet/listener who she in turn can never listen back to me.

Yeah you're welcome shaieen. :) You get the point, yes not all of people interested about our problem and story. Ooohh, how bad she is. I think because of that accident you close your mind from others. You don't want to that situation happened again. Don't push your heart to hard when you want to share your story. Just share is to anywhere, don't expect your friends can understand about your feeling. If nobody don't want to listen about your problem Just share it into your diary or something else. I think you can get fell better than before. :D

Wow, I love with someone who can listen with their heart just like you. Beside listen to them you feel their story. I think you not just a good listener but you are a great listener. :D i have read book and I get some good quotation says, "good listener listen with their ear, a great listener listen with their heart" Yes you're right it is hard to find someone who can understand and fell about our problems. Thank you shaieen. :D

Hahaha! What a good listener and a very studious one.

For atwilson, haha I think that is the different meaning from my discussion. :D But for me no in the class. hehe

haha, yes dazzledlady. Wilson has different way of thinking about that LOL.

Haha, yes of course. I appreciate your effort to help someone problems. Sometimes I cannot solve their problems too but I still listen to them carefully. Have a nice day.

Yes, you're right. Give some advice to person who has problem will give a big influence to them. It means we must carefully when give it to them. thank you for sharing. :D

Yes, you're absolutely right. Thank you for sharing, yeah you're right if we talk in the middle of their story it will change their mind and emotions. Better we give some advice after they already talk all about their problem. Oh ya, Have you ever tell your story to your best friends Cherish?

Wow you have a good mission xemoth. Actually just a few people want to do that. Some people hate to do that because it is not give you much money. But, I am agree with you. I prefer do what I love rather than anything. Hope you can achieve what do you want. :D

Hmm, yes we cannot always success in understanding others problem. But you're right we can do the best for them. We cannot live without them, because in future maybe we get problem and need help from others too. Thank you for sharing.

Hmm, how often you listen someone story? Oh so the more often we listen to others, can increase our ability in listen and give solution yaa.

Yes you're right, because not all of our friends can solve our problems. My suggest, don't push your heart to solve your problem if it so hard. And yes you right just tell that to your trusted friends. Hope your problems get the right solution. Have a nice day. :D

Yes you're right. Better you listen before speak. I love that statement. Of course nobody can solve their problem by themselves. We as their friends always there to listen and help their problem with hope they can help us too about our problem. The beauty of sharing. Have a nice day.

Wow, you are a very good listener. :D Yes, you really right about that. Beside we listen to them we must understand about their problem too. It will be nothing if we just listen to them without giving some solution. Thank for sharing pjha

Wow absolutely you're right. Yes, listen is one of basic to understanding something. For me sharing to the others can reduce my problem in my mind. Thank you for sharing. :)

Oh that's great. Not everyone can do that. You can give some motivation to others. Keep up your work. Have a nice day. :D