Couples Fight in Facebook

Hello lordcaocao2025 :) Yes I have friends who love to show to the world that he/she is having a fight with the partner.. And I think that is a stupid thing to do.. Don’t they ashamed to what they do, and using bad words to each other.. Why they must fight via facebook wall, and not calling on a phone and solve the problem? *sigh*

Yup! I agree with you, my friend. I experience something like that too, but I never confronted my partner in facebook. Better not to say something even if I see someone in her profile...

I think it's ridiculous when anyone fights on Facebook or Twitter or anywhere in plain view of the rest of the world. That's the kind of stuff that employers, friends, and future significant others could possibly see. Never-mind all the people who aren't involved and can see your fight right now. When couples fight, they should fight off-line where nosy friends and family can't read over their shoulders.

My cousin does this and I think she is crazy. Her boyfriend does not respond to her post at least he has some dignity. Most everyday she is writing something strange and you know that it is meant for him. I showed my mom when she was visiting and it really does make my cousin look like she has lost it. I don't see her that often and from what she post I am glad about that. I have even thought about removing her from my friend list.

I think it is so sad when people have to use facebook to communicate, if you cant talk face to face maybe you shouldnt be together. I also think that poeple should keep things private and not air their dirty laundrey in public.

yes! . I'm also a person who often write my stuts what is happing with me .. so .. I should we don't do like this and avoid from writing about your personal life .. but what we do .. at that time .. ??????

I think that not only couples but anyone who has a disagreement with another should discuss their problem in private. Not doing so in public for all to see the show.

so we can say that they are so stupid how come they make their self become the centre of attention from many people include the unknown people?? how come they are so stupid when they fight and nobody of their friend smile for their fight..?? they never understand the meaning of social network.. why they don`t use their cellphone and solve their problem and nobody know what their problem??

It is actually quite rare for my husband and I to have a fight at all, but to fight via facebook is definitely something that neither of us would ever do. The reason that I wouldn't fight with my husband (or anyone for that matter) through facebook is because of the fact that would be airing my dirty laundry for the world to see and that is not something that I want to do. I would much rather keep my problems private.

I agree it should be private. I hate when another couple fights in public and pulls me into it. They always want me to say what I think and I would rather stay uot of it all together. I have never known anyone to fight on Facebook, but that's probably because I don't use it much. If someone fights in public, sometimes their friends or family will pick sides, and then when the couple makes up it is akward for their friends.

I have not seen couple fight in facebook but I've seen a few people expressing their disgust to another person to an extent that that person even posted a picture of the other person with hurting comments included. There are also cases where they express their disgust to another person but don't mention to whom the message is for so people end up guessing and the comments pile up for those who would want to find out who that person is.

I think that's just sad! When couples try to use facebook to air out their dirty laundry. Like you said, fights and misunderstanding should be done in privacy, preferrably face-to-face. They should spare other people from reading and knowing all about their bad habits, and ill-feelings towards each other.

Now many people are like that, They dont know to keep their family problems secret. now this is the fashion and update everything happened in their life. facebook unknowingly killing privacy of the people.

If you're going to have a couple fight on facebook then you're probably not serious as you think you are. :| Nice Three Kingdoms avatar.

I think that family matters should remain at home. I have a friend whose daughter tells everything that goes on at home. I would be furious if my child posted things like that. The child is 17, and should know better.

I can never understand why people do this on facebook and I think that you are right that if you are going to have an argument with your significant other, don't embarrass yourself or the other person by fighting with them on facebook. I think that it is just childish and makes you look really dumb (and I normally don't call people dumb) but it does that you are sitting there having an argument over facebook. I normally try to ignore the posting and move on and not try and get involved. I think maybe they want attention from their friends or maybe they want someone to jump in and take their side and justify that they are right and the person that they are arguing with is wrong and they need someone else to tell them that they are wrong as well so that they can feel good about themselves. I too can never understand when people talk bad about their significant other on facebook. Saying that they are jerks or whatever and they just got in a fight. I could never do that with my husband. No one ever knows when my husband and I fight over facebook. Because I never post anything about fighting and we never fight on our walls. The things that happen with us argument wise is left between us and that is it. I think it is ridiculous that people try to bring others in their relationship when they are arguing. That is just childish once again is what I will say.

with reference to your post, well, i do saw a news on yahoo this morning regarding a couple who fought using their facebook account. well, i really dont find it okey. as what you have said is truly right. that, their quarrel should be done privately. and not be divulged over the social networking site like this one. however, maybe they had their own reason why they decided to post it on facebook. maybe they want to feel the celebrity feeling, thinking that their issue will be going on trending.

It is obvious that this couple are not longer talking.

"Facebook" is a good site if used correctly & appropriately. As a matter of fact, I have gotten connected to my friends from decades ago... Its just amazing. But, at the same time, if its used inappropriately, it can severely damage reputations of people. Regarding the topic - fighting on a social networking site is so darn immature!! You are exhibiting all of your personal problems to people all around the world.. What's up with that?? Why do people do such immature things??!!! GET REAL.. whoever is putting their husband/wife fights on "Facebook"...!!!

I think it's unappropriate for people to fight over the internet or in any social networking site because both of them are ruining each others image and it's not good to see someone fighting over serious matters online right? because people or the public would be able to see it and not only would it be shameful but at the same time it both degrades you and the person involved. The tendency is the situation might get worst than what you expected because it would already be influenced with external factors. Come to think of it, people who has this attitude should learn to be more private when dealing with personal matters like arguments with your boyfriend/girlfriend. I also had a friend like this who was very vocal on fb and it didn't do her any good.