You give your "all" but still he cheated on you...

That's like a kidnapper asking to keep in touch after he released you. :|

Yeah, I know the feeling. You did everything, and you sacrificed but still cheated. How's that? I don't know, I did give him a chance and he's very sincere, he got me but if I didn't find out myself he'll continue what he was doing. I hate people like that, he just took me for granted. What's the purpose of having me when he still got eyes for other girls. He begged, cried, and even said that he'll kill himself come on, old schemes. Never will my trust be back again. He ruined everything and now I'm afraid to put trust in a relationship.:(

this is very hard. the fact that he had cheated on you is really painful and it is hard to give back the trust. if you are not married yet, it will be easier to let go. but when you are in marital relationship and have children, you will still try to work it out and give him a second chance and be sure to learn from it because is definitely enough and two is too much.

My boyfriend actually cheated on me a few weeks ago. I am still pretty mad and I have not talked to him yet and I am not planning on talking to him soon. He calls and comes to my house and work and stuff but I just ignore him. I think I am not ready yet. I am still pretty hurt, mad and disappointed about the whole thing because I really did love him and I think that I still do and that is one of the reasons why I don't want to talk to him because I know that I will probably break down and accept him back. I will only talk to him when I feel emotionally ready. I do think I will eventually forgive him but I don't think that I will go back to him. I guess we can be friends but not really 'close friends'. I don't want to fool myself into believing that everything will be OK with us.

hi, we can not avoid that situation,and that happened to me also,for me if my boyfriend cheated me once then i will give him a second chance because everyone is deserving to have that second chance,so i will still give my love for him in second chance,but if he will repeat it then i will stop loving him.

For me I would not give her another chance, in the first place she had already cheated you. This means that if she had cheated you once, she could cheat you again in the future, you could say that may be i might be wrong. Well my simple explanation for this, is that if she is really sincere with your relationship then she will take care for this relationship that you have whatever it takes, she will resist any kind of temptation just to protect your relationship. But if she failed to resist such temptation then her love for you is weak. In every relationship, TRUST is very important once it is broken you can not bring it back again.

Hmmm I will give him a chance if I know that he is sincere. He better be good to me after that because I do not like cheaters. And it is really hard for me to rebuild the trust that was broken or it may take longer to give him another chance. I cant be sure for now, decisions changes with the kind of situation presented to you.