We should have had a wedding....

I am not married yet,but maybe i will be soon..he he or later.I just want to have happy,wonderful look wedding.The most is that not only wedding but the good happy family to be soon. And will go anywhere,and enjoy .

I had two weddings, but the best one so far was my daughter's wedding, not one of mine. My first wedding was the formal type, and I was just twenty, and I did have a wonderful time, and lots of stress, as I made the attendants' dresses etc. as well as ties and cummerbunds for the guys. Mostly what my mom did was crochet the sleeves for my dress, the Irish crochet rose motif, with pearls inthe center of each flower. My second wedding was small, in our church parlor. I bought blooming plants to decorate. My younger sister helped me order my dress and hubby's suit. I had the children's choir from church sing, as well as some of my best friends. My son played the bridal march on the trumpet, my mom and dad were both still alive. My daughter's wedding was great. She made her dress, except we took the sleeves from my dress and put in hers. I made the outfit for the flower girl. My daughter and her fiance made candle stands that were more than six feet tall. We secured them up the aisle by using a wreath hanger to hold them to the pews. They had glass globes. I made or recycled table cloths for the reception and made most of the food. Good memories there.

We had a nice wedding. To be honest, though, even though I enjoyed it, it wasn't that important to me. Still, it was nice. We got married in my husband's family's church and had dinner at my favourite restaurant.

I like the idea of a nice wedding but I have never had one. It is very expensive and I never had the extra money to think of planning one. I would like to have a nice wedding for my daughter though. If she wants one. Some people are happier just going to the judge without the stress of planning a ton of stuff. I would do white and peach. I think I might want it to be on a beach or in a beautiful place. White and pink blushed roses would be my flower of choice.

we had a wedding but it had been taken over by our mothers to a point that it was nice but not really us at all. I had chosen a cream color and dark green to match the variegated ivy I had in my flowers. We had gorgeous flowers as my cousin's wife at the time was an expensive florist and the flowers where our wedding gift. I did not get the dress I wanted as I was forced to wear something my mother would purchase because we didn't have the money. Though the dress I loved was less money then the one she liked she not only insisted but after I had ordered the dress I liked called them back and canceled it telling them I had changed my mind and that we would take the one she liked. I got the dress back three days before the wedding and saw it was not the one I had chosen. I had no choice no dress could be done in three days. I wa sluck enough to marry a good man who am lucky enough to still be with all these years later. We recently spoke about a reformation of vows and having a reception and ceremony our way. We think in a few years we will do so for our 20 th anniversary.

I am not married yet but I plan for a wedding for my spouse. The theme would have to be very unique and the colours would be purple white and other colours that will not crash with purple. Dark blue can also work for me. I have been in wedding before and I like the mark it lives on once life. It is an experience worth going through.

I think that, whatever you do to celebrate the permanence of a relationship, that is a 'wedding'. You may do in church 'before God' (but, more importantly, in the presence and with the acceptance of family and friends) or you may make it just a 'personal' thing. However you do it, it should be a personal affirmation of a commitment. Now, there are times when we can't continue with a relationship. Our 'love' of someone doesn't actually work, even though we miss that person. A 'love' relationship happens for a number of reasons, not all of which are really 'love'. A relationship can also become an "ex" relationship for reasons which are very definitely 'love'. Your 'ex' is, perhaps, trying on a kind of emotional abuse by saying that he wishes that you had a wedding. He knows you as well as (or better than) you know yourself. He knows what buttons to press. Weddings are very emotional and evocative occasions. It depends where you come from, but most people (especially the ladies) tend to think of the reception and all of that stuff as what is to be remembered. The church (or civil) ceremony is really just an 'incident' (although, perhaps, the private point of it all). Most people, however, think of the 'wedding' as being mostly the reception and the festivities afterwards. You really don't need people you are fond of to manipulate you emotionally like this. It's possible that your 'ex' isn't aware of what he's doing. You should be ... and you should also be (kindly) pointing it out to him and showing him why his dreams are really just empty wishes ... we may wish that things had been different, but they aren't. What we have is what we are NOW and (very often) why it didn't work before and why it won't work now.

I had a simple church wedding but 12 years after a happy marriage my husband was befell by a kidney malfunction. I thought of just having a more beautiful wedding when we have to renew our vows on the 25th or 50th wedding anniversaries but it would never happen. Though I was contented with my best friends and young nieces in my wedding entourage with my parents and my parents in laws plus the principal sponsors close to us in that occasion. Still I dreamed of having a nice renewal of vows should my spouse didn't passed away that early. I wish you a beautiful wedding. For sure it would be nice as long as you had planned it. Best Wishes.

That sounds like a nice conversation.... I have always been the type to know that I want a wedding. Of course it's not always in the budget. But I know that I want one, however long I have to save up for it is OK by me. THe only problem is that I am no where near marriage at this point...Don't even have a boyfriend. . Ahh, well, the dream is still there.

I had my dream wedding and for me that is one of the most unforgettable days in my life. On that day all eyes were on me while walking in the aisle wearing my white mermaid gown and my long white veil, and holding a bouquet of white lilies and roses. It was magical and I don’t even remember who are the people around me, saying “you’re beautiful!” It was my dream wedding that changes my life from being just me to being the two of us, and now to the three of us. it is not perfect day though since it keep on raining but when the Church bell rang, the rain stopped and the sun shine as if God was delighted. I want to have it again when we reached our 25th year, and it is way to go.

I think every woman would love to have a PERFECT wedding even if they regret to themselves. When I was younger,(but i'm not that too old now) I used to dream of having a wedding in a CRUISE SHIP. YEAH! I know it's kinda big and fancy, but hey! that's a dream you so dream BIG. I want it to be more private, like I just want to invite the CLOSEST people in both of our lives and just enjoy the moment together. BUT it has changed. For me, it doesn't really matter if I get married through a judge or church as long as I got married to the man I would really love to spend my whole life with and willing to hold on to our vow no matter what. WEDDING is just like formality for law that you are legally married but the most important thing is that your relationship. SOME marriage were very fancy but they ended up being separated few months or so....SOME were unmarried but remain as a couple.

I think getting a real wedding is every girls dream. Its mine too. My husband and me are only married by civil ceremony. We planned to get married on a church last year on our 5th year weedding anniversary but we just had a baby a few months before that so the finances are not that good. We are planning to have it this year or next. If i would have a wedding, it would be on a church that i really loved. Blue would be the mottiff as i love blue. It would be a very simple and intimate one for us.