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last night going thru facebook i noticed a girl on there that worked at a pizza place i go to alot .. had a birthday coming up.. i was reading the post and to my suprise they were not your typical birthday wishes.. becasue as sad as it is she had died and on her birthday as well.. so i seen where my husband had posted happy birthday on her site and i realized he did not know she had died either so when he came home i ask him and he said no and was shocked she was a young girl only 29 did not make it to her 30th birthday.. april 2nd.. he went to school with her i just knew her from her work but it was sad..so we looked her up in the newspaper to see how she died and it did not say it only said she when she died and that she had passed away suddenly.. so i still dont know what happend to her..and it breaks my heart to see someone that young die espically with kids involved.. so last night before bed me and hubby were talking and we started talking about death and he said that in his mind when you die you just cease to exist.. any more and i said no i dont beleive that.. at all..as we none really know what happens when we die.. i still believe in God and think there is life on earth here after.. it is a scary thought , but even my husband said last night, we never know when its our turn to go and i added to him that is why he should never tell me again that he dont love me becasue its true we all will die one day and who knows how long we have here on earth and life is too short to argue about little stuff that usualy makes no sense and be mean to one another and say mean things... like him telling me he dont love me anymore.. it really got him thinking he did not say anything back but i could see her death had touched him as it did me as well.. she was so sweet.. even though i only knew her thru a drive thru pizza window she was always so nice and sweet to me and she always new my order and got it right if she saw me she would say i know what you want.. and just be so polite .. i will miss her alot.. i can only imagine how much her friends will feel.. its sad..