When does the passion start to fade??

The passions expressed in any relationship usually takes on a different dimension; depending on the phase of the relationship the couple is at. For example, a certain type of passion and excitement may be associated with getting to know someone for the first time in the relationship. In this case, your significant other may possess intriging traits that stimulates an insatiable apetite/passion for sharing/learning more things about this individual. After knowing enough about those quality traits, one usually move on to another activity in the relationship such as intimacy, and so on; all of which attract its designated levels/types of passion. In my opinion, one should never strive to become too comfortable in any intimate relationship, so that the 'boredom effect' will not set in. Hence, one must ensure that the excitement/passion level in the relationship should not fall below a certain level; regardless of the phase of the relationship. A relationship is always work-in-progress, and as a result, effort must be expended to keep the passion levels high while one works on keeping the relationship vibrant.

That is the million dollar question. I once read that if you continue to nurture it...like continue holding hands and being physically close that it slows down the process of shifting to normalcy. It apparently makes the brain give out certain chemicals with the touches and that keeps things going.

being too comfortable with your partner is a breeding ground for boredom. i guess, you and your partner need to add spice to your relationship. try things you dont normally do. test your stress tolerance and adaptability to some scenarios (like living in a place with no technology or let him bond with your friends and vice versa).

it is pretty important to keep the spark alive as time goes by, so adding "spice" once in a while would hopefully create enough steam to get going again. There should be a constant sustained effort in finding ways that would somehow enhance both interests and dwell on these, i.e. travel, hobbies, etc.

I think that if you look at this from an objective point, it's all part of the relationship. The order you used to describe the phases of the relationship is pretty accurate and I can say that getting to co-exist with the loved one is the most important of them all, because now you can see if you are really in love.

Familiarity breeds contempt, I always believe in that. And I am also one of those who re afraid that when things get too comfortable, the magic in the relationship might be lost. For this thing to be avoided I must say that keeping your significant other excited about you is one way. There should always be something new to discover from each other. That is why I do not really agree on the thought of spending day to day basis with your partner. Although you have been together for a while, there should always be a time set for yourself and for your partner. Having the time alone can lso rekindle a flame and the enthusiasm of being with your partner again.

I'm married for almost six years. It's not easy leading a marriage life. We should understand and respect each other while learning what our spouse wish and what is his/her dream and ambition. And for almost sux years we can lead our marriage life quite well. Of course there's problem during six years but we can through all of this very well. But there's always fear inside me that someday our love is not as big as today. not for me but for my husband too. We know that living with same person for a whole our life sometimes could be hard and challenging. But for me, love is like a flower. We should take care of it so it can live well abd give us beautiful flowers but if we dont, the flower will die. We wont get its fresh nor its beauty. Love is like a flower for me..:)

In the matter of relationships -- initially the two like each other at a high degree--they want to see in the other person--which they have not seen so far--the person wants another adult with whom he can take full liberty. After that stage is achieved --unless marriage has taken place --depending on the value system of people in the respective country -- the passion goes down. This can be applied to relationships, work situations, charities etc. "New broom sweeps well". This example may not be fully relevant in this context. however this phrase explains why new of anything is cherished/liked.

sorry boss,if you fade your passion for this things...then it doesn't your passion according to me.Because if your passion exist for something then you won't be disturb by any means unless you are successful in it.it just a attraction not anything else...you are here in this world to do your work...so keep doing it...

Only yourself can tell when the passion is already fading and it's always up to both of you to maintain that. You have to look for problems and one by one fix them. Try to analyze carefully what should be done in order to maintain the relationship.