Why women hates beautiful women

It is only jealousy my friend, they also fear her, she is beautiful, fresh, new at the office, hard worker, easy to handle and work with, so dont go think otherwise, I am woman I know, I ve been there, it is not only the outside look of a person it is the whole package that a person offers if she has strong will and if she is smart, things will come around very soon, sooner than you think

I think many people tend to do that. Sometimes they don't realize that they're being mean to the person out of pure jealousy. Others, of course, are well aware of it and are trying to make life miserable for that person in order to make them leave the area. It's quite sad really. But its nice to hear that she's still standing up to them and is not caving in.

It's jealousy and those girls feel threatened by this confident girl. People who are insecure are always jealous of confident people. And many of them would resort to bullying to hide their insecurities and to try to show the confident one that they are "powerful" or "stronger". At work, those who feel threatened would either take it constructively and do their jobs better or they would take it badly and react badly such as bullying and backstabbing the person whom the feel the threat from. It happens a lot. It happens here in our office. Sometimes, I feel threatened by new employees, too but unlike your insecure office mates, I let the feeling slide and I just do my job and let the newbie do his/her job. You should tell your girlfriend not to get involved with those haters. It will not result into something good. She should better mind her own business. In fact, it would be better if she would tell your other female office mates to just back off the girl and just do their job.

This is a very common problem with women. If they see someone better than them in looks, the irritation starts like bright sunshine on the hottest day in a dry desert. If by any chance the new babe is hard working and friendly then my friend, there will be fireworks. i have had a good amount of experiences. Right from ignoring to abuses and cat fights. It is really not very good to get involved, that is unless you and she really can pull it off together.

Haha, it is interesting. I think it is a common thing that women treat females who are more beautiful than themselves bad. Especially their male colleagues (even boyfriend treat the beautiful woman well). They are afraid of all the attentions and focus are on that beautiful woman. It is understandable. Well, i think though you may feel unfair for this woman. But don't show too much sympathy to her, especially in front of your girlfriend. You know, females are more sensitive than men. And if this beautiful colleague of yours doesn't do any thing wrong and a hard working person, soon or later she will gain trust and respect from female colleagues.

Captain, this is one of those things that men wonder and sometimes, never get it. there are also times when the woman who is the object of the jealousy of other women can't also figure it out. It is kinda weird but it does happen, even in the workplace where everything should be professional and impersonal. I suggest that you should stay out of the business unless it is really affecting the work between the three of you. I have to say that I am also taking my hat off to the woman for being what a professional woman. I don't know about these other women and their dislikes about her - it should be set aside if it is a personal matter but given attention if it affects the professional work or group dynamics.

If women or men hate a person because of their looks, then the haters are small-minded at best and nasty people at worst. I have worked with beautiful women and while I might wish at times I was as pretty as they are, it never made me hate them. I try to give every person a chance to prove that they are pretty on the inside because that is where true beauty lives. There was one stunningly beautiful woman my husband took to lunch - his secretary. A neighbor lady saw them and couldn't wait to tell me of his 'infidelity.' She was appalled that I laughed it off since it was Secretary's Day and my husband always felt he should do something to show his appreciation for the work done all year. What the neighbor failed to mention was that his other secretaries were also there. He would also give his secretaries a raise. He came home to me and that was what counted in our relationship. His secretaries were bright, cheerful, professional young women and their dedication to hard work made my husband look even more brilliant than he already was. I worked with another young lady who was gorgeous, but she lost my vote for best buddy because she refused to be trained in her job. The reason? She was attending college and this was a summer job. She didn't want to 'burn out her brain by putting too much information in it.' HUH??? My first thought was how did she get into college or this job in the first place? Other beautiful women I have worked with gained my respect by being kind, friendly, professional, and willing to work as hard as anyone else. I felt sorry for them often because sometimes they were not taken seriously because of their looks. That is patently unfair! On the other hand, there is a woman on one of the social sites who is talking about how people hate her because she's beautiful. Frankly, she is not that physically attractive and this ridiculous site made me feel pity not hate for her. She has no clue how to make friends.

Interesting. As a female, I can imagine feeling threatened by another person's beauty. This is because others may be more easy on her because of her looks and this is not new news in society.

That is just a bad situation to be in. Does she have friends that are girls at all? She seems to be nice. it's really scary how girl turn on each other sometimes... Jealousy can be very dangerous. Why doesn't she speak up for herself?

I don't think it's just jealousy for her looks alone. As you have mentioned, she is also very professional and a diligent worker. This could also put her in the spot since people may view her as a market spoiler. The employer may raise the expectations and standards of the employees in the company because of her. But I think her attitude is right that she didn't waver even when she is outcasted by others since she is doing the right thing.

Well that's women for you! Sometimes us girls get a little sensitive and jealous, as we tend to compare ourselves with each other. But really, that's really mean to do such a thing to this young lady who has just started to work there. Good looks does get all the girls jealous but acting on that jealousy is totally uncalled for. If the female workers are actually voicing out their dislike to her, I'm quite amazed on how she is putting up with all this. Bullying is something you'd hear in primary or high school, not at work too! Voicing out their dislike to her isn't going to change or do anything but hurt the poor woman. But you just can't help it really, girls can be really ruthless in what they do. Girls have no mercy when it comes to bullying. Hope the situation gets solved for her.

Hai friend... I am a woman..In my point of view, All girls are like this..They will be very jealous to the other good girl..It is very difficult to find a girl with out jealous.. while that kind of glamorous girl speak to our beloved ones, that woman will surely respond to them..And try to avoid them.I have experience.. :)

Women tend to become insecure when someone is hired who happens to be more beautiful than they are. A beautiful woman tends to get all the attention from the guys but more often this does not last long. When everybody starts getting used to her, everything will turn back to normal. But since she has been with the office for 3 months the girls should have been used to the fact by now. It is strange that this animosity should last this long. When I was still on the job, the girls would only feel jealous for a few days to a week and afterwards they do start with a friendship. The beautiful girl must have an attitude which you guys don't see. It might seem that she is not doing anything wrong but the girls in the office must have good instincts not to feel too good about her. Observe the situation since I have a feeling something is not right and you don't just don't see it too well.

Well beauty is the biggest weapon of a woman, so it's totally normal every female person in the office to hate her. That's because they feel threaten so they convinced their self that she's bad and manipulating everyone with her beauty even if they know that she's just a new lady who came to work and that's all. Woman malice is natural for every woman but the most of them shows her malice more than the others. I think you should intervene and show the others that she's not that bad and she hasn't got any bad intentions. Good Luck :)

Crass Insecurity! thats what i call it! In our office, we dont have stuff like that. In fact, we would like to dress up and learn more for these chic pretty ladies. We dont gossip or think idly of them. We admire them for their beauty and we all want to be prettified. hahahah! I guess... the people in our office are all secured and just indeed professional and mature.

the way you defined her is all the reason why women in your office hate her. you are in full praise for this girl and you very well know that she is not wrong in anything she is doing and quite well composed...professional...it's jealousy for sure. who would like their BF to notice/study/analysis another girl so much.

Hello friend, You are right my friend. I also agree with you about this matter. It is true that women hates women. Have a nice day.

They are just jealous and insecure with this girl. Some women are like that.

Men hates strong while and women hates beautiful women because the strong men gets the beautiful women or the other way around. :S

u know great men and even god also did not understand than how we can