online love--how can i do

China
April 5, 2012 8:05pm CST
half a month ago, i chatted with a boy on line, firstly we chatted like friends, and then maybe relationships, i saw him through webcam, he is handsome, but i donnot know if he wants to find a lover like a playboy we have each others' cell number, but he seldom phone or message me, only on line chatting. and he can keep on line for a whole day. Now he ask me to go his country which is nearby mine. im familiar with that country too, should i go to see him?
5 responses
• Waltham, Massachusetts
7 Apr 12
I wish you the best of luck and would advise you to either ask him to come here for your safety or if you do decide to go there then make sure you either meet him with someone else you know who lives in that country or you meet him in a public place. This way you can protect yourself and still get to meet him. I hope that it all works out for you whatever you decide.
• China
7 Apr 12
thanks, but these days he rarely contact me, said he was busy for planting...
• India
6 Apr 12
Hello friend, It is a very good news. But take your every steps very carefully. Best of luck for your relationship. Hope they are all be right. Have a nice day.
• China
7 Apr 12
thank you i will try to persuade him to my place, hehe ...
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
6 Apr 12
Can you really trust that person, and can you really spare some time to go on a trip to another country where you are not familiar with. I just hope that you are safe as a first consideration. There were many online scams, I hope that is an authentic one, and you won't fall on a trap. Anyway, ask more information, and do some investigation before you can be sure. Then you can embark on this trip.
• China
6 Apr 12
thanks for your advice, i have seen his ID card, it's an evidence for a person in my country, and information he told is consistently. we chatted for half a month, and i often go to his country, i have many friends and classmates there. but i still hesitate.
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
6 Apr 12
As what others above suggested, it is better for him to visit you.
• Philippines
6 Apr 12
Its better to let him go to your place for your safety too. Im not telling he's a bad guy but can't tell a person is nice unless you get to see him/her and be together everyday
• India
6 Apr 12
Hello friend, You are right my friend. I also agree with you. Have a nice day.