Become friend with an old Enemy in facebook

usually, I don't because I do not want to be reminded of what she/he had done. Although, this does not mean I did not forgive him/her. Only that I cannot take the idea that I am again in coomunication with an old enemy. Besides I occasionaly sign in to my facebook

I have some high school mates that bullies me every time because I am quite different to the group, which some like a nerdy type. I see them also in facebook, I add them on facebook even if they are my past enemies and I interact with them as well but with extra careful mode. Interacting high school past enemies is one of the part of growing up and not all the time all of them still have the same attitude before, not unless they are not fully mature with the attitude.

Well if you want to just set things right well facebook is the easy way to do this. But if you don't really care or even hate each other then I don't see a point on adding each other :)

i did not add the people which make me hurt i dont if i had forgiven them.. but its better for my life and my heart not to see them anymore

in my high school i was very shy and only had one person who ever disliked me and that was due to a boy, her boyfriend.. i went out with him once and i knew he was taken bad choice for me.. but we had a one night stand he was my first guy ever and then after he left and went home and i took it hard.. and then the next day at school he sent her roses and my freind ended up getting pissed she always stood up for me.. so she told her about it. and she so she did not like me of course.. but other then that i was known as the good kid who did no wrong.. my point is about a year ago she sent me a friends request.. and i was reallt suprised she had married that same guy from high school which i already knew... but since she sent the freinds request i added her as well and we talked once on chat, i knew and liked her sister so i ask about her.. it did get my attention..and im glad she added me.. made me feel better..

Personally myself, I've been in very similar situations where you seen an old friend you haven't been in contact with. I do believe myself that if it's not gunna start any issues or drama between the person that it's always good to add people from your past and catch up in life. I find it really nice talking to an old friend and bringing back memories or just seeing how their lives are now. It's craxy how much time flies.. But at the same time, I have also had friends add me/myself add an old friend where we haven't interacted after the friendship was requested. I'd say give it a shot! Nothing to lose. Be the brave one and add or message them and see if you get a response. You never know!! You may start up another good friendship and you might be very happy with that. If you don't, you may end up wondering "what if" or "what coudl've happened". At least if you add them, you'll know at least you tried being part of their life/lives (if that's what you want)! I'd say goo for it & lemme know how your results turn out!

No I do not add them in fact often I turn them down. I think that my first instincts back in the day to not have anything to do with these people where good and to this day I trust them. I have many friends I have had in my life for over 20 years I obviously made the right choice keeping them in my life there fore I trust that I made the right choice to not have the others in it.

I can actually say that I have very few enemies in the world. In fact, there are only two people that I can think of that I would consider to be my enemies. That said, one of them was my friend on facebook for a long time, but that was before the two of us had our major falling out. Then, after the falling out, I removed her from my account and also blocked her. The other, I know is a facebook member, but it is someone that I will never be friends with on facebook because I don't want to have anything to do with him ever again.

I don't know if I would say "enemy" exactly, but an old friend from junior high contacted me through Facebook - and last I remember, we ended our friendship on a sour note (something that another friend and I did to her). I saw her once at a high school football game, but when I said hi, she just gave an UNenthusiastic hi and walked on - so as expected there were still hard feelings. It was stupid really, but maybe after all these years it was mostly forgotten (or forgiven)? SHE is the one who contacted me. Well, we've caught up - and I'm very happy for her . . . and we still comment on each other's Facebook posts every now and then. Then I have another childhood friend whom I ended the friendship in our mid 20's. She became a major pain and I could no longer be an ear to her anymore. Again, I couldn't say we were enemies then, but I for sure was glad to have her out of my life. 15 years later, she contacted me via Facebook (she saw my post via a mutual friend). It took me a month to decide whether to write back or add her in . . . did I really need that garbage back in my life? Well, I took a chance and added her in. I didn't exactly welcome her back in my life - but at least we could be in contact via Facebook (but that's it). There is still a lot of garbage going on in her life (so typical of her - she posts this stuff on Facebook) - but - I can pick and choose what I comment on. I will say this. Even though there are some people who were thorns in my life, I have been relieved of the bad memories/emotions by being in contact with them again on Facebook. We're not the best of friends like we used to be - and we probably never will - but it's a good feeling that we can put those ill feelings to rest (because sometimes they do come back) and move on.

Well, it was high school- if you were friends before then why not be friends now. You're grown up and more mature too. Just try adding him and see if he returns the gesture.

hi there, i have never added my enemy on Facebook, but i don't really have one. if ever he or she adds me, i won't even dare confirming the friend request.

It depends on the animosity.I had a fight with a girl in my class,when I was 10 years old.Never been friends in school,did not see each other for about 45 years, I left my country of origin,but with FB,I reconnected wit a lot of my school mates,and she was one of them.So now,both of us grandmother,we exchange news,jokes,pictured and greetings.So basically it is up to you to decide.

Well I think you should add him in two reasons. First, if you still consider him as an enemy, add him exactly for this reason. You know what they say - Keep your friends close, your enemy closer. But if that happened long time ago why shouldn't you add him. Facebook friend list is more like friend list and list of people you know and if you add him he'll think that your over this whole situation and you'll be mature in this situation. And what do you know maybe you can become friends if you interact with him and laugh at this situation back in high school. Good Luck !

i have an enemy now on fb. she is my boyfriend's ex girlfriend who is so bitter of me. suddenly as i was browsing her profile, i realized that i got blocked by her because im not able to see her entire profile. haha she's so bitter i must say. then when she got okay, she added me on fb again. and i ignored her. duh. haha

Hello lordcaocao, People change, probably takes years before the emotions settled down, but the friendships might not the same as before. you can just be civil with each other,some wounds are hard to heal. specially if you have taken this a bit badly from that person. though time takes place that you will eventually forgive this person..

No, I probably won't go through all that trouble to add my old enemy through facebook though. Even my ex girlfriend, I might not want to add her to my friend's list, since we broke up, it feels awkward to talk to her again. I should open up my mind, as many people should advice me right?

I haven't experienced such a situation yet,and if I saw the profile of a person I had a grudge against on Facebook I would probably ignore it,I don't think I would make the first step towards reconciliation.However,if that person took the initiative and asked for my Facebook friendship I guess I would be reluctant to accept it,but eventually I would go for it and add that person on my friend list.After all,almost everyone deserves a second chance and wise people are able to bury the hatchet and communicate again,and turning an old enemy into a new friend would certainly be a great achievement.

I dont have such friends. So due to this reason i don't have such enemies over there. Life is all about that. Remember a small smile can turn the war to peace and you have to give him a smile. Keep smiling!

Hello friend, No friend I will never face the problem ever. Have a nice day.

in school we never have a serious fights so not need not to bother it....jst contact it...i also do it..and nothings happen after that we become good friends.....afterall fights will give you nothing...so be friendly to all...