Children learn hate form their parents!

It bothers me to see what is happening nowadays. I do believe that children tend to imitate what is been done or said by their role model who happens to be their parents. On the other hand, the social settings that they grow in and media may have a significant influence on how they behave. If we really want to see any changes, we need to change the way we bring our children up and how we perceive other races.

I do rather agree with this sadly and one hundred percent. Of course, the parents aren't going to admit that this hate or really any other bad behaviors from their children are going to likely come for them. But there are times where some beliefs have been passed generation to generation and really, it gets to the point, where no one can come up with a good reason. This is why there have been tensions between two races. Something occurs for generation after generation, and the reasons often get lost, but the hatred remains. Of course, it is not to say that there was ever a good reason, but some people rather could not let it go. The fact is that children are very much a product of their parents. For both the good reasons and also the not so good ways. It is easier to be ignorant than have an open mind. That's what it boils down to. We look at things in a simplistic way very often.

Agree, it is overall bad parenting to teach any child to hate another person base on racial background. I have never being taught in such a way by my parent during my entire life. Each individual is different no matter what race he or she belong, hating someone just because he/she is from a different race than you is plain ignorance and wrong, sometimes it never stop amaze me how much damages a parent is willing to instill inside their children in order to destroy their life by consuming them with hatred during their formation years for the satisfaction of bigotry. I assume only through proper education, mentality like this can only slowly be erased from a civil society after many decades, it is not easy but is possible to overcome bigotry in our society.

I agree hate is passed on from generation to generation. My grandparents are part indian. We are dark skinned but nothing compared to the african american color. For some reason my grandfather taught my father to hate african americans and any other race but the Caucasian race but they are of a different race themselves so I never understood but my parents also tried to teach us children to hate and I just couldn't do it. Everybody is a human and deserves to be treated so no matter what color. You can best beieve my children will grow up to love everybody and accept them for whoever they are regardless of skin color or accent. I agree though. This HATE needs to STOP. We are the only ones as parents who can stop this by raising our generation of children not to hate.

My mother was a great role model for us even though she was divorced,single, with three kids at a time in the fifties when things were not like they are now and one had to be satisfied with very little. You had to make money and food last and as a single parent you also had to spend time with your kids. She did not have a racist bone in her body and coming from a country wrapped up in skin color and frizzy hair that was unusual. People were acutely aware of their skin color all the time and you could be hated just for being fair and having straight hair. That was the hatred outside of the family; the biggest hatred was within where relatives with a dark skin hated you and called you a slew of ugly names. My mother never encouraged speaking ill of people and never taught us to hate. In fact, she despised the word hatred.

Children learn from their parents. If they are taught to have discipline and respect and they abide by this in the home, the parents have done a good job. On the other hand if the children are rude and are bullies, the parents are to blame. A father who beats his child is not teaching him anything; he is only releasing his own anger. A father has to spend time with his kids and teach them respect. It is also no use one parent teaches respect and the other person is abusive and constantly breaks down the family structure. Think what a great opportunity you have to teach your children what is good and what is not good. You can nurture the child with love and guidance and teach him to be a good human being.

Hello friend, Yes it is true so they need the home tutots and teachers. It is the big problem of parents. Have a nice day.

Yes, you are right, people are not born to hate, it is a learned behavior. When children are young, they look to their parents to learn and be guided. When parents show hate towards others, children learn it. They trust that their parents are right and that what they say must be correct. Young children do not know that hate is bad. They do not understand what it is. They just believe that what their parents do or say is right. It is not until they get older and are surrounded by others and experience a wide variety of other viewpoints that they might realize that their parents' way may not be the only way. By this time, it is usually too late because the hate is already instilled in them. People need to realize that hate is not the answer and that children are very impressionable. This is the only way for hate to not be passed down more and more from generation to generation.

yup i agree with you