Pseudo realtionships...

Base on my knowledge on this, MU happens when there is no open communication between the people involved. Both will feel lost and hurt in the end. The greater hurt will come from disappointment because what their hoping to continue or start will never happen. :(

I have experienced this type of relationship. The longer you stay, the harder it is to let go. It may be good because you act as best friends but, there will always be one who falls in love and gets serious with it. When your feelings get deeper to that person, you cannot tell him because you're scared of what the reaction will be. You are unsure if he feels the same. When you want to spend time with him but he is with someone else, you cannot tell him that you are hurting because in the first place, you are not a couple, you just act like one.

hi! i was also in that kind of relationship before i met my husband now. we were m.u for one year. we don't even say i love you to each other. it really hurts like hell. i feel like crazy over a guy that you don't know how much he feel for you. it's just amazing how i handled the relationship for almost a year. it only ended when i decided to entertain another man (my husband now) to have a stable relationship.

this is quite true,there are those who prefer this kind of relationship,no string attached,no commitment,you can go anytime you like & you can be with each other anyway.Well in my case, I wouldn't want to be in a pseudo-relationship because I am a strong believer of Love,although I have been heartbroken before, I would prefer a relationship that is being committed, a little jealousy ,fighting & It feels good to know that somewhere somehow you have this other person that you called your other half...

I understand this topic so well because I experienced it first hand during my college days. Pseudorelationships are the worst there is. It plays with your feelings. There is no solid ground. No strings attached so they say. What's worse is, you like the person but you can't tell if the other person likes you also. You can't demand, because in the first place she/he is not your boy/girlfriend. You just deal with them to pass the time. But this kind of relationship is bad especially for your heart. You can never invest on feelings because you don't have a place on the other's heart. It only hurts you like hell. I wonder why people dwell on this kind of relationships.

for me, i dont like to be in this kind of relationship. i mean, nothing can beat the feeling that someone is committed to you and to your relationship. hassle and pressure is part of it, part of growing up as a couple. just saying :)