I want to get married....but with a right guy!!!!

what do you really mean? everyone wants to marry the right person. it doesn't always have to be all heart or all all head. it has to be the same and equal judgement. just as long as you know and feel that you are ready and with the right person that you love, then i think it is okay to go for it.

Marriage is the one of the most important thing in very ones life. All of them including me and you try to find success through it but it is very difficult to find such a success in present situation, because in the present situation most of them have different relations (deep love). The parents force their children to go for a better life with others. These are the some of the cases which makes marriage an utter foolishness. In such situations there is no love the couple act loves between them. So make sure that you have selected the one which do not have such relations and make sure that the person can adjust with you. Then only the life can be a success. Any way best of luck deeksha_dams

I know this will sound cheesy but here goes. I think that if it is the right guy for you, your heart and your mind will both agree that he is the right guy. If there's a dilemma between the two, then that guy may not be right for you.

Of course we want a little bit of both, in my opinion. A good mix of HEART & MIND. It's important to keep things practical (logical), but also to marry the one you love. Too much of either "feeling" or "logical" thinking is not good. We need to find a balance between the two. Happy MyLotting!

You are thinking about it. That’s normal. What to do? I would say do not rush anything. Sure use your heart. That is what it is there for, right? In the meantime, date, explore, have relationships. These will tell you what the person is like and will tell you more about what you need to know in regards to ... what is that special man like and what does your heart say. Right? Sure marriage is about securities but love is the key I think to a good marriage.

Hi deeksha, First up welcome to Mylot. I understand your dilemma with this issue. Marriage is a important thing for any individual, but we have to be very careful while choosing our life partner and like you i am also in a similar situation but i am taking things slowly as of now..first question is are you ready for this kind of commitment and from the looks of the question i am guessing its going to be an arranged marriage, which is quiet common and if you dont like the guy i am sure your parents are going to understand this situation. ask them for sometime and tell them that you are not ready for this...

Everyone wants to marry that right person, but sometimes when you do after awhile you may think that they are not right anymore. I would say go with what you want to do and not what you are forced to do. You ever heard the phrase your Heart does nothing, but beat? I would go with what you know and what you are feeling. I went with what I was feeling and how I felt about that person. Just ask yourself the top questions... Is he right for me? Do I want to spend the rest of my life with him? Things like that. Hope this helps and have a great day.