in the back of my mind i feel bad

I would feel bad as well if i were in your situation. But i have an idea on how you can make it up without spending much money. Not sure if you're gonna buy this but i'd like to share my idea with you. Why don't you make a coupons, about ten or as many as you want. In one coupon you could write there free sensual kiss, another coupon could say, free massage for an hour, etc! Then you could tell him that he could use those coupons whenever he likes with no expiry dates.

that is so sweet of you, some times just happen that we cannot always anticipate. there are always better ways to celebrate and i am sure being with his family already made his day. just cook something special at home and i am sure, he will feel that you have not taken his birthday for granted.

Oh, don't feel bad my dear. I am sure your husband won't choose to have that treat while your son is ill. I understand you want to make your hubby's birthday a special one but incidents happen beyond our control. You can always make it up. You can plan for it next week when you have extra money. Maybe booked a special dinner- just the two of you. That would be romantic then

hello there! my, my son got an accident and hospitalized too on my husband's birthday. we just have our dinner at home that day. that was the most traumatic day for me and thinking about it again makes me feel so weak. we are really thankful that nothing serious happened to my son or i will forever regret being a working mom. i know your husband appreciates the effort you are making and we really don't need money to celebrate. the mere fact that you are all together, safe and happy at home is a blessing and you should feel good about it. if you have money the next time then do the celebration outside, it is never too late i think. i understand your feeling dear and i hope you feel better now. happy mylotting!

Oh, i understand your feeling. However you guys were happy together even though you guys didn't have a celebration for your hubby birthday. Then you see, even you guy didn't have extra money for a dinner with his friends, but you guys are still happy together, it is the most nice thing. You are such lucky woman...when have a happy marriage life. Don't feel bad, your hubby understands you and you have many chances to show up how much you care your hubby and your family.

Spending money is not all that is important when it comes to celebrating. The best celebrations sometimes involve the least money. Spending time together and with family can make a birthday great in itself. Instead of going out to eat, you can cook a special dinner at home, something maybe the person with the birthday likes but doesn't have that often. If you think a little and are creative, there are many possibilities for celebrating a birthday without spending very much money. When someone has a birthday, I think the most important thing is being remembered. That means a lot more than how much money is spent.

That is the problem with being an adult. Often other things happen that keep us from celebrating the way we would like to or doing the fun things we had planned. Maybe you can save up and take him for an "unbirthday" celebration, another time. I am sure you are glad to have your son doing better and feeling better, and that is a good present as well.

hijazel__juan life is like that at times,just when you have it allplanned then something happens that has to take precedence.I am glad your son is better. why not have an unb irthday party of som e sort when you have some money again and surprize him,I know he does not feel badly towards y ou because you just did not that the nmoney for a birthday dinner out. just wait it will happen that you will have some money then spring a surprise on him,sometimes just hanging out and having laughs with ou r loved ones is better than we think, specially remembering those who do not have family and loved ones to hang out with.You will make it up to him, I know. think positive.

I am sure your husband understands.. I wouldn't worry or feel bad about it. What can you do, really? And at least you got to spend the day together and hang out - that could almost be enough of a present in itself!

Sorry to hear that case. That happens not only with you but with others like me in different time. Do not worry, there are still a lot lot more other days to celebrate. Save again and treat him sometime even without occasion. Good enough that your kid got well. That must be a blessing.

listen it so easy all what you had to do is get a beautiful rose better to be red and give it to him with a letter and you write in that you love him and that you respect his efforts for make you happy and that you love him too much with a beautiful kiss on from lips and he will be really happy and glade from this

dont stay upset. just comfort yourself and promise that you would make it up for your hubby. i believe he understands. just be sure you would take the time and effort out to make it up. have a nice day!

Hello Jazel, I know how you feel right now. There really are times that things happen in an unexpected way and all the plans set forth will be cancelled because of that. But don't be sad, you spent the money so your son will be treated and your son's wellness is the best gift your husband can get during his birthday. I'm sure your husband won't be happy if you just kept the money for his birthday celebration leaving your son very ill. There are so many ways you can celebrate your husband's birthday or make up for it without spending a lot of money. One great example is going to church with your family, be thankful that nothing bad happened to your son. Then go to the park, let your kids play with you, their laughter will be one of the best gift he'll ever receive :)..