stand or be bullied?

I hate bullies to and I never allowed myself to be bullied back in high school. Many of the big masculine boys were the most notorious when it came to bullying. They would do everything in their power to kill the morale in you but for, many of them never went away with it that easily.

Somehow I encourage people to stand up and fight back on those bullies. Even though you are out number, at least you let them know that you still have the might to fight back. But what comes around goes around. Someday, those bullies who bully others, they will be bullied by their bigger match, see how they gonna feel about it when they were under such situation without help. If you felt that is justified, stand up for yourself, and fight it back.

It is a very hard situation. The rules here for the children are very strict when it comes to aggression and if a child does stand up to a bully physically, they are punished to the same extreme as the bully is. It is a shame. There has been a lot of attention and work going on to eliminate the bullying thing and I hope it reduces it in the schools. Bullies can ruin their victims for a very long time.

I have two. When I was a kid, I was 11 then, I was bullied by a sixth grader. I was scared that time that I didn't even bother to speak and just walk away from them. When I think back on those times that I let those b1tches make fun of me, it makes my blood boil. Now that I'm on legal age, I won't let others bully me the way they did 15 years ago. I will stand tall and chin high if someone bully me today. All hell break loss I won't let other people get me. It's not being rude or something, just fighting for your right to leave the right way. Bullies should learn their lessons that they can't downgrade someone just because they want to. I hope all the bullies out there wake up one day and realize what they're doing is wrong.

Bullies are being immature and insecure of their status. In school, these kids are mostly the brats who lack parental guidance and love. At work, there are still bullies, and most of them are insecure of their status in the company. They want to intimidate people as a defense mechanism. It's not necessary to fight back all the time. We have to choose our battles, and sometimes, to win means to avoid the fight.

I do agree that's it's part of life. But hey, life is about making choices and being accountable for those choices. A bad guy doesn't go to jail because he has done so many good things in life but because he did something bad even if it's just one time. It only takes 1 mistake to forget your 1000+ good deeds. I hope this principle would help. "It's better to be humble and lowly than to walk with the pride and arrogant." It's easier said than done, right? But what do you have to lose if you just let go? I'm not saying it will be easy, but at least, you're doing the right thing. Think of it, if you have the strength to fight back and make your revenge, would it do anything good to you? Sweet revenge, huh?! But you'll be just like them. You'll say, you're just defending yourself or they deserve that. Well, you'll be on the list, the list which contains the name of people who hurts others. If you do good, you'll be rewarded but if you do bad, you'll be punished. ~~