To fight a battle that you can't win or give up?

I am absolutely feeling the same right now. I felt like I am such a failure on everything, and I am trying my best to do my best to make it better. Would it be a bottom of shame, or how many of those daily stresses I have to endure. I am absolutely not build for these. I am keeping my hope.

Battles that are worth fighting usually end up in victory. Some battles we engage in life are usually not worth our effort. When you chose to get in to a battle, this means that in victory value will be added to your life. If you find that in victory of any battle you do not add value to your life, quit that battle. Choose your battles wisely.

I hope that your situation improves. Times like that are overwhelming hard. I know that I have experienced some hard few years. It just seems that the problems just will not end no matter how hard I try. But I'm continually work on it now. I have reached a point in my life where I'm trying not to let others negativity affect me and know what is best for me. So I'm hoping if I continue working on myself, reaffirming the things that are so important to me that I will be able to get through times when those who are suppose to be the closest to me give me the hardest time.

I had the same feeling with you when I strated to find a job last year. Before then I thought I was a good one, but now I just found that I was nothing. I don't want to give up, however, evething I have done always a failure. I think I use to get the reject letters now.

I do not know how deep you have fallen but sometimes it is also best to give up than continue fighting. If you are really tired then do not push yourself too much because you are still bound to fail. It is best to rest and save your energy and effort and go for it again. We cant have it all but if we think we can achieve it then there is no harm in trying again. Some of our endeavors will not be successful and instead of swimming against the current, go with the flow. Give yourself a break. Don't let every failure drown you, as long as you are alive.