Baby Afreen dies - Mother wants father of the child to be punished.

Thanks uncle for selecting BR as my response really now girl is more better than boy at least she understand the feelings of parents but boy not think such. Only few boys are thinks about their parents but girls always think and understand the feelings of parents.

Surekha: yes Surekha - boy or girl both are same. In fact we spend same time, money for both boys and girls. I wish Surekha gets both boy and girl - yes. recently one Mr. Ram - who is running an institute successfully in Chennai -- I have contact with him since 2003 -- from the small beginning -- that boy's wife delivered twins - a boy and a girl about 10 days back. The couple are very happy. Of course there may be problem in taking care of the kids. People like the father of Afreen -- I cannot stand them even for a minute. should be thoroughly punished. If it had been in our neighbouring country they would have just flogged him to the end.

welcome to mytlot. Yes. such people should be put into prison for a loner period/number of years. Happy to note that your parents were desirous of having a girl child and you came into this world.

Were dinosaurs less satanic, or Nazis less barbaric..

mmobhomeir: thanks for the first response. These words given by you will make any one think about our attitude towards life, children and necessities. "Well, this has been prophesied that as the world getting older the people are getting worst on their attitude, characters and their satanic actions. All of these horrible act would never be changed but it would be worsen. Let us stay away out of this kind of individual" have a good day

vandna: The cruelty -- father torturing his own daughter -- at least in the case of Nazis and other terrorists they were killing people who they were not familiar with. How can a man dislike his own daughter simply because he doesn't want a daughter.shame shame. now words to further scold that guy.

Vandana: Yes we have all become materialistic. (sorry to use the word "we" --) How I wish we get back to periods about 100 years ago when people were not this crazy over things/issues. Incidentally Hyderabad must be getting hot/hotter nowadays as Chennai is.

Yes, Hyderabad is getting hotter, and unfortunately, I have been smouldering this morning. lol Actually, I went to the bank with a check the other day drawn by another lady for tax savings. She is in 30 percent tax bracket. So my bank manager agreed to give that tax saving deposit even though I went on that day. I was delighted because I was fed up with Andhra Bank's inefficiencies. Today, I see that the deposit is given for this year. When I had highlighted to him he went so far as giving me an application for opening a new bank account on her name. I had one lakh in my account that day. I'd reached bank almost 15 years before bank started working so that I could give the instructions correctly. The concerned staff member turned up 10 minutes late. In any event, I had emphasized that the tax saving should be for the previous year. He said it would be done. I'd waited for the concerned staff member, whom I wont blame because she is being asked to shuttle between two or three tables. Pretty unfair if you ask me. In any event, I again asked her, madam I have not mentioned the name, should I put yourselves. My mistake..I should have suggested that I will give a check on my name, and deposit the amount in my account instead, if it was not possible. It was actually implied but I should have emphasized. But she was too busy to understand the implications. She said she would issue the tax saving certificate and did not! And the bank manager has cooly got off saying that he forgot! Can you believe that? He gave me a bank account opening form that day and he forgot! He says we meet so many customers each day, and I disbursed 30 applications on that day. Great. I thought that was the job of the peons and the girls they use from employment exchange. If the bank manager's duty is only to disburse bank account opening forms and fixed deposits opening forms then he should draw only 5000 INR and not 50000+ as he does, right? He is paid for his knowledge and ability to think not for mechanical functions. So mad..Vandy at her angry best..while I didnt say as much I did feel that much. I did however mention that disbursing the applications could be done by that girl from employment exchange.. Cant resist being that cheeky..I am nasty aint I? I am one of the oldest customers of the bank. So I thought he should've listened to what I was saying instead of being so keen on getting another account.

I went to the bank on 31st March. Had he said he cant do that, I would have given a check on my name. And deposited the check into my account because the cheque was blank when I reached the bank.

and how innocent was the m o ther as this must ha ve gone on awhile so where was monm while dad was hurting his own bab y? nobody said what she was doing? if anyuone had tried to lay a hand on mybab ies I wo uld have fought tooth and nail to stopthem so what w as mom doing while dad was abusing that poor little child?

sswallace/Hatley aunty: yes the fellow should be punished fully. But Indian legal system -- is very slow and may take decades for things to be decided. Women should be given more training to defend themselves and to stop people doing wrong things.

Aja: thank for your fitting response. The fellow should not have given birth to a child. And for all that -- I understand that it is mainly due to man -- the gender of the child is decided in womb of the mother. mother is not responsible. There are thousand of people all over the world not being able to have a child -- the child could have given in adoption to such needy people. they will take care properly.

yes. If he couldn't take it, he might better off have left than kill his own daughter. That child has a right to live... probably deserved to live more than he did. If he is so heartless then... I can't see him as human anymore.

cutepenguin: Exactly - it makes every one feel sad on seeing such a negative attitude. that man could have hurt himself instead of hurting the poor baby.

Weeds are meant to be uprooted!

allknowing: In fact I also felt the same and I did not put it in writing. Yes. a few others may say that man should be given mental treatment and made to reform. I am sure this type of people will never change but change others with them.

yes,. that much horrible incident. what a poor child has done. such people should be given maximum punishment.

Exactly. If the person is not confident of managing a girl child then he should not aspire for a child.

I think it is due to ignorance and gender bias. Such person should really be punished.

Actually, out here there is a big menance called dowry. As long that ugly custom is around, nobody would want a girl. Ok..here is something worse for you. In some towns, if the girl was born, and the parents didnt want her, she would be stuffed into earthen pots by the midwife, and thrown in the river. And we are not speaking of something in prehistoric era, it was something that was common about 10 years ago, and I dont know if it still is. I heard fathers also cut the baby's head - and it was like..he was doing the baby a favor, after all the world didnt have good fate waiting for her..considering that it would be difficult to arrange for her dowry. It all boils down to that rotten custom. I would be better off adopting a child from north east because nobody would expect me to pay high dowries for that child than adopting somebody who is born in and around my part of the world. Here, my maid needs minimum of 10000 USD as of date to get her grand daughter married. In my community, it has reached 10 times that. So I get terrified when anybody from my community tries to ask me to adopt their child. And people from my community are only too willing to give away the girl child.

welcome to mylot. I am also of the same view. such persons should be punished.

Krausehome: yes. it is very sad such incidents happen in the world like this. He deserves severe imprisonment.

dilraji yes. father killing the daughter. this is bad. another place we see man selling wife for drinking liquor. where are we going. government is not aware of all these things or they do not have time to look into this.

I also feel so. that person deserves extreme punishment. court will take its own decision and law will take rule. Incidentally I like your avatar-- moving pet --very interesting--it is similar to a pet shop we saw recently in a mall in toronto.