the betrayal
By geinu17
@geinu17 (42)
Philippines
April 12, 2012 10:26am CST
for years, i've been thinking what is best for my friends... something that they could have an advantage of even if it requires me extra effort and time, sacrificing some stuff just to give them what they have to have. but, how would you feel if one day your friends would hide something from you? keep a secret that is something very significant? the feeling is like a knife being stabbed on your back ten times. of course it is painful since they never considered your works for them and they still have the nerve not to tell you something essential to you and your career.
2 responses
@dze_rn (2)
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12 Apr 12
i do understand your predicament..but sometimes there are things that your friends would hide from you because they do not want you to get hurt..not all things openly discussed or shared defines friendship grounds. But if they intentionally did it to bring you down, in your career, then maybe you may start considering the real motives of your so called friends, if indeed,they are your true friends.:_0
@geinu17 (42)
• Philippines
13 Apr 12
thank you for sympathizing. but as i eavesdropped during their conversation, i have heard that it seems they did something without me knowing it. i mean, we promised to do it together.. but i think they left me uninformed and did it their way. i really felt i was being betrayed or something. i considered them as my true friends.
@honest_efforts100 (1607)
• India
28 Jul 12
Secrets destroy relationships and even families. Keeping secrets from our loved ones is worse than telling the truth even if it hurts them. Keeping secrets can feel like a betrayal especially if by keeping the secrets someone’s life is impacted negatively. Secrets show that a level of mistrust exists in any relationship. If you trust someone, do not keep anything from them. In the end they will feel betrayed.
