Is constant communication can nurture long distance love affair?
By mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
April 13, 2012 3:44am CST
If I am going to think and compare the communication before and what is it now these days it is unbelievable.I once had a girlfriend before that I thought she would have to be my wife. A memory that eaten a three fourth of my life. A memory that would not be deleted in my sane mind for as long as i live. A greatest moment of my life that when I come to think of it unintentionally it makes me close my eyes and reminisce the past.
Well, the main reason why we never meant to be each other was our love affair were million miles away. Long distance love affair that the main hindrance is the communication. Skype chat, Fb and other form of advance communication today are never been invented before. When I think it over right now, I guess, 90% we would never be apart should we have this kind of communications that we could use (everyday) today.
I believe love is like a plant that should be nurtured everyday.
Nice weekend my friends..
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8 responses
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
i don't believe in long distance love affair. even with emails, video chatting, facebook around. we don't know who speak to when we are apart, we don't know who they'll meet. and tendencies are they fall for another person who they can see whenever they can.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
I respect your opinion my friend because we have the right of it base on what we learn and experience. But for me, based on what I experienced (love affair), constant communication is the main problem and the reason why our established relation (13 years) were all gone to regrets. Thanks anyway for responding my friend..
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@mariab2000 (740)
• Canada
13 Apr 12
I agree with you, communication is a very important of a lond distance relationship. Infact, it is an important part of any relationship although it kind of becomes more important somewhat when you are far away from each other. However, it is not the only thing that is important in a long distance love affair. You also have to have trust and mutual understanding and there has to be the will to make the realtionship work even if the physical distance is really big between two people...
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
Faith, trust and communication; if these three basic requirements are connected and function well, wherever they will go, they would maybe apart momentarily for some reasons but their relationship would stay stronger as time passes by. But anyone of these would be gone or not doing well, relationship would be slowly diminish as time passes by.
Thanks for responding my friend..
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@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
13 Apr 12
I have tried to have an online relationship with someone once, and I got bored with it. He and I must have talked to each other for a year and a half, and then I just gave up because he wanted me to come and visit him, but when I asked him to come and visit me, he said he didn't want to do it. He wanted me to come visit him, but yet, he wouldn't come to visit me? What's up with that? So, I told him that it was over. He still tries to contact me every now and then, but I told him that I really want nothing to do with him. To me, online relationships are futile.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
Hi rougue, in your case I think the man should find a way you and him would meet. For me, it is improper for a certain woman to go to the place of a man just to meet each other personally after been having an online relationship. I don't to some other person's point of view, but for me, a man should initiate ways to meet his woman.
Maybe your man doesn't care about that. Maybe if would do that am sure he would really very proud of his friends on the situation that you're interested of him most than him. No never ever do that on an online male friends or anyone from an online intimate.
Just a sort of advise my friend..take care always..
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
13 Apr 12
Hi mobhomeir,I agree that communication is very important in any kind of relationship.However, this is something that should be mutual and then only a long distance relationship can work, thats what I feel.I agree that one has to nurture love like a plant as you say for it to grow ...all the best and have a great weekend 
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
Yeah kiran..if both distant lovers would miss their communication it would just be eaten by time until it would go to vague relationship and it would be too late to realized it was already gone..
You too my friend...happy weekend...
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
13 Apr 12
dear Martin,
I do believe that communication is one of the best way to keep the love alive.
However, in this modern day, with all the technology and ways of communication- it doesn't help me at all.
One thing I do not like is chat and email.
Those are no use- if the person you love doesn't know how to give importance.
I feel fire burning inside each time I open my email and saw no response- or when I am online for a chat and no "HI" or Hello from the only person I am waiting for.
It's so depressing and sometimes drives me out from those communication.
There is NO USE for me....and only making me sad most of the time which eventually making me hard- turning me into a heart of stone!
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
13 Apr 12
Hi bonita. I think that is another problem. That's the problem of the other end. Well, if i am not mistaken, your man lacks respect or love to you (sorry to say that). Because if he really loves you then why he won't answer your email or something. This guy is not worth to be loved and be respected, he is not meant for you. Find another one that really loves you.
Thanks for responding my bonita..
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@jmay1226 (97)
• Philippines
13 Apr 12
Long distance relationship is very hard. Trust and honesty aside from other factor these two are the main key of a bonded relationship. Every person has different personality and attitude but when it comes to love we have majority similarities. Being on a long distance relationship needs time and sweetness as well. Couples who are in this kind of relationship should give more effort to work their relationship. But of course, destiny has it's own way. Even how far you are from each other if you really are meant for then you will be together no matter what.
You should trust and be honest with your partner. Even how small things happen to you on that day you should share because that will count the most. Even you are bored you should share for you to feel that you near to each other.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
13 Apr 12
I understand what you mean my friend but in our case before was different. We're both honest and trust each other but due to poor communication that slowly happened our relationship went to nothing.
A couple of years ago I met again this girl at Fb. During our conversation (FB Chat) I asked her serious question. "If we had this kind of communication (FB,Skype), do you think our long relationship would go nowhere"?
And I got no answer, until now I am still excited to hear what her answer but I didn't got a nerve again to ask her...
Thanks for responding my friend..
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
14 Apr 12
Myhusband and I met when he was in AZ and I was in Ontario Canada. We met in line and were in constant communication. That's what made things work so well for us. We got together in person in 2007, got married, and have had a wonderful life ever since!
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Apr 12
Wow that's cool my friend.That wouldn't be possible without constant communication.
Thanks for responding my friend..
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Apr 12
Yes my friend. Trust is not enough though. The trust you build up with each would be eaten up by time if the time that passes by communication can't hardly be done.
Thanks for responding my dear friend.
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