I'm teary:(

Nikhabele, I am teary too, I often cry when watching touch movies. But i hate to cry in front of the other people, but sometime, i can prevent my tears falling down. Well, i don't think teariness is bad, even i don't want but it still exist with me, so that i try to live with it. When watching touch movies, if i cry, i let it is, don't force myself don't cry. In the others cases, i try to force myself don't cry at that time, i may cry later. It sound crazy but i don't want to be teasy in front of the others people. Nikhabele, just be as who you are, don't be strict to yourself. Wish you a happy day!

Im sorry you are having this problem and for so long. Maybe there is something that is bothering you deep down inside. And you haven't faced it yet? Or you are unaware that it has effected you so much. I think if there is something deep within causing you a lot of sadness and emotion. The best thing for you to do is discover what it is and face it. And examine why it is making you so upset. And take everything 1 step at a time. Try to relax and think about what makes you so sad. Or why you get so upset when you do. Maybe something is triggering you at the moment. Surely there are things that tend to set your emotions off more than others. If you have someone close to you. discuss your feelings with them. Maybe they will help you figure this out. And also don't feel so bad for crying. It just shows you care. Emotions are a beautiful thing. Maybe you are just a very passionate person :). You mentioned that it started when you were pregnant 9 years ago. So i assume you are not on any birth control. Sometimes that stuff can make a woman really emotional and cry a lot. due to the hormonal changes it brings. Or even other medications in general. If your taking any medications, I would look into that as possibly being a cause. Side effects can be crazy! I hope you feel better. And lastly I'd say try not to prepare yourself before a situation. Sometimes the fact that your thinking about it all ready, can cause you to cry. Just try to live freely without any thoughts of crying or not crying. Let the moment happen. Good luck to you I hope you figure out why this is happening to you. Or hopefully manage with it. :)

When I was married to my first husband and my daughter's father I would get very tensed whenever I needed to have a talk with him. I would get emotional and cry and then he would slap me. Once my face was so swallen I was scared. I ended up leaving him when he slapped me one too many times and I had my bady in my arms.

I think you should consulta doctor about this. I am also easily moved but not all the time. Sad movies can't always set me in tears. How long have you had such a feeling?

You must understand why you are crying first, to sort the issues of breaking down in tears.I think that there are lots of people out there that also get all upset at the slightest thing, for no reason at all.Perhaps you should think in your mind, that after you have said what you want, you will feel a lot better.I cry when I am in pain, or a family member is upset or in pain.