FAIRYTALE not always Have HAPPY ENDING..., :(

It's clear to me you never read a story tale well. Story tales teach us a lesson. Do you really think that if Aschenputtel obeyed her bad stephmother she would have catched that prince? Also sleeping for 100 years till a prince shows up to kiss you awake is not really catching mr perfect in no time! In the story tales it's not about obeyeing and being passive but about knowing what you want badly and go for it. That will give a happy end. For the rest your story is hard to follow for me. I don't know if you talk about a boy or girl since one moment you talk about "he is perfect" (nobody is perfect so I can tell you already by now you will be very disappointed one day if you are not able to see the truth) and next moment you are talking about SHE (which means it's a girl). You can't force anyone to like you or fall in love with you since each person has his/her own (right of) feelings and we all are different if it comes to likes or dislikes. The only one you can be angry and sad with is yourself. You better open your eyes, focus on what is more important and look forward to your own future. Stop your far from realistic view on that guy and give him (and yourself) a break. You won't even be able to be friends with him if you keep behaving like that. I am sure he knows/feels it so a good reason for you to be embarrashed as well.

I think that a lesson that we all have to learn at some point in our lives is that life isn't always fair, and there will be things that happen that we wish didn't, and things that we regret. This is just something that we are going to have to learn to deal with, and I do believe that things that happen to us make us stronger in the long term, and mean that we are more able to cope with things that happen in the future now that we know that we can survive and that we know how to cope with certain things that happen during the course of our lives.

i guess you need to stop believing in fairytale, for first you need a fairy to make that a tale and you need to be in a comic book or movie to make a fairytale. just kidding, just wanted to make you smile. you waited for a year after that text? wow. talking about patience here. i would rather ask than wait. what if he likes you but to shy to tell. or when you asked about the text he was tongue tied and wish you would asked him about that again. i guess waiting sometimes can not solve anything. you need to do something besides waiting. just waiting and expecting a happy ending does not go together.

just don't thin too much about that..make yourself busy on something..be productive..there'll be someone right for you..just don't hurry everything..if someone likes you, he'll find a way to tell you and court you..

I am with the person that said did you actually flat out ask him if he likes you? Fairy tales aren't real to the point where you can just expect them to automatically happen. No one likes to wait forever for someone that can't make up their mind or doesn't even have the courage to speak up. He is not a mind reader and therefore might not even know you are interested or have been. If he says he isn't, then say ok and when you are alone cry for a little bit. There is nothing wrong with that, but until you actually ask him, you shouldn't talk about your fairy tale not having a fairy tale ending. After all, in every fairy tale for the most part unless the woman is royalty she gets herself noticed whether she is using magic to go to a ball she would have never been allowed to and other such tales. You never know unless you try.

Some boys are just like that..they make you feel special but for them it doesn't have a special meaning to it..they are just being nice..one of my friends is like that..he's really cute and there are also so many girls(and even gays)fall for him..i was also attracted to him at first but when I finally realized that he's just being nice, I stopped myself from falling deeply in love with him..And now we are still very close friends!:)

sometimes this things happen for reasons. just let it past by my dear. help yourself move on with him. you will just hurt yourself if you don't treat him as your closest friend it would better if it would be like that I am hoping you'll get by on this. After few years you will laugh on this experience.