why no one responses me ??

@ichris (67)
China
April 14, 2012 12:00pm CST
i keep writing a lot of disccusions,but on one respond ,so sad ,but i will keep on ,making money is hard
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Apr 12
Have you responded on discussions by others? have you added some friends? Have you commented back to those who have responded?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
14 Apr 12
I hope that you realise that YOU do not earn for the responses that others post. They earn for those. YOU earn when you comment on those responses anf further the topic of the discussion.
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@Hazelme (647)
• United States
14 Apr 12
Introduce yourself first, and please don't say making money is hard don't start being negative but instead positive. choose interest you like, you should have people and myLot in there and many more. Add friends and start participating in other peoples discussions. You'll see your discussions will get responses soon.
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@stary1 (6612)
• United States
14 Apr 12
ichris Sorry to hear you are so sad...be sure you don't ask one word questions since polls are deleted and many won't bother answerting since their response will be deleted too..Good luck..keep trying ...
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@suraj7nov (1736)
• India
14 Apr 12
yes making money is hard and even harder if you donot have plan and even more harder if you cannot stick to that plan
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@mohkanari (1957)
• India
14 Apr 12
It is a rare case, if it is fact. Make me as a friend so that I could get messages notifying the starting of your discussions. Similarly make many friends. Try to make discussions with worthy subjects. See, earnings are there, while responding to discussions.
@pandora22 (868)
• Romania
14 Apr 12
try to make interesting discusions and don't think about earning money. if you will be active on mylot just for fun you will see the money adding in your account. i am active when i see topics that i have an interest on and i post in a discussion only if i got something to say. some of the discussions that i have started have not even one single answer while others have many. it is all about creating good topics and having fun.money are only a plus.
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• Canada
14 Apr 12
You've received a lot of good information already... I hope you come back and read these responses AND comment back to people who have taken their time to write. I would like to suggest that you also remember that you are not just "writing a lot of discussions" but you are actually "opening conversations" when you post here. I have read some of the discussions you've started and you don't ask any questions... you just make statements. When you do that, people may not be sure what it is that you want to talk about... or they may not feel that you're even interested in what they have to say. Having a good conversation means going back and forth. It's like a face to face conversation with a friend over a cup of coffee... do you talk AT your friend or WITH your friend? Part of being a good conversationalist is being interested in other people... caring about their thoughts and opinions... and asking them questions so that you can learn more from them. It might be good for you to focus on responding in other people's discussions first and watching how they comment back to you... it will give you a better sense of what a discussion site is really about. Don't focus on "making money"... focus on "making conversation"... the money aspect will then take care of itself. Good luck, ichris
@Neowyld (10)
• Portugal
14 Apr 12
It will be frustrating at first, I know. Just try to make interesting and fun discussions and you will probably get responses
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