What kind of neighbours do you have?
By shrmanoj
@shrmanoj (382)
April 15, 2012 10:03pm CST
Here, in my city I have a strange type of behavior in my neighbor who have very curiosity and very bad manners that I became very frustrated from them. They make our environment very dirty when we are not at home as well as when we forget to keep our things inside the room, they steal it or throw them every where. Our clothes were also torn out one day when we reached home late and our shoes and door mats were also stolen. What to do? Give me some suggestions.
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13 responses
@Tamosree1993 (1525)
• India
27 Apr 12
Hello friend,
Try to make a friendship with them.
Have a nice day.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
17 Apr 12
very interesting ones and annoying ones lol but i really do not meddle with their lives so i really cannot tell more
@babystar1 (4233)
• United States
16 Apr 12
I have good neighbours. I even have a neighbour that cuts our grass for me in the summer time. we get along with our neighbours just fine. Our neighbours dont steal from us if they would they would go to jail. where do you live? dont you have laws there.Do they go into your house to steal were your shoes in the house or were they outside. We dont keep our shoes outside. well if I was you I would call the cops. and have them put in jail. lock your door when you leave. dont leave anything laying around outside. lock them up.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
16 Apr 12
What kind of place do you live in? Do you mean to say neighbors or do you mean to say Roommates? A neighbor lives next door to you, whereas a roommate lives in the same place and shares the same rooms as you.
I think it's best to try to keep the shoes and such away from them and as for doormates maybe it's best to just leave them away as well.
I live in a suburban area and the neighbors can be loud. I hate that so much as I like it to be very quiet.
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
16 Apr 12
Well my neighbor are not like that but only very noisy all the time coz they all gathered in front of our house.
I think you better moved out. Coz maybe this time the things but whats next your life. For your safety as well to your family i recommend to you to move out look for a place that is safer im sure you'll find more peaceful place.
@cyndidaki2871 (83)
• Philippines
16 Apr 12
It is really a strange thing to have weird neighbors to say it.In the environment that I am presently having people here are unpredictable because we have not known them that much anyway since it's not been awhile that we have dwell in this place so what we are doing we are guarding our abode continuously because we are worried that strangers might be attacking us at anytime of the day isn't it astounding that we have such peculiar attitude because of the unfamiliarity of the place.But what to do but to have such guarding attitude and pray that his absolute power shield us all.
@comeonmolly (828)
• China
16 Apr 12
I do not have neighbors now as I am still live in the school dorm, I have my roommate who I do not like so much, I do not like her own way of talking without take care of others emotions, I always do know and always tell myself do not show my emotions in front of her if I am not happy since I think that is emtional and a kind of immature. I am also confused with her. sometimes we can not change others and cannot make others have the same attitude with our own, seems they do not have that kind of kindness as we did to others. What we can do is just change ourselves and do things like oceans can embrace all the streams without any preduice or any personal feelings.
Molly;) hope you everything goes well
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
16 Apr 12
Well, I live in a big apartment complex and I do my very best to keep to myself. I am successful in this to the point where a girl 2 doors down from me who is a good friend, lived there for the longest time and I had no idea that she was my neighbor until recently. Don't get me wrong...I'm friendly. I know my neighbors by sight and I do greet them in passing but I do keep walking. I don't stop and get invoved in their lives. I lodk my door when I leave. I am guessing that you don't? My suggestion would be to be sure to make sure your things are inside your place and to lock up when you leave.
@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
16 Apr 12
That sounds like a very annoying neighborhood, what's more they are stealing... I guess it would be better to move somewhere else once you will be able to...
I live in an apartment complex with many neighbors. Some of them are very nice and helpful. Next door there is a single mom with two teenage boys who are fighting all the time, I often wake up hearing them shouting and throwing things.
There are some meetings for all the neighbors time to time to discusswhen there is something new for the community, or have to decide how to share some bills. Some people always start fighting and can't agree on anything, so in the end everyone is forced to accept the decision of those who shout the loudest.
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
16 Apr 12
unlike yours, our place is clean. one problem is that they get pissed everytime we are having party, or we bought something really nice.... i think the term there is jealous. and because of that, they gossip.
my advice for you is to transfer to another place. somewhere decent,clean. a nice subdivision maybe. most subdivisions have rules and regulations regarding cleanliness. some have security guards. to keep robbers off.