attitude versus appearance

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i always find myself so lost in love. i mean, i have been existing in this world for over 21 years now yet i can't find the right one for me. as humans, i believe that to fulfill the reciprocation process of love, you will love and someone will love you back. but that is not always the case right? because often times, we love someone who cannot love us back; or we are loved by someone we cannot love back. but let's go back to my situation. what must be the reason why this misfortune of mine exists? well, i may say, it is for the reason that nowadays, people are looking not from the inside but rather the other way around. and instead of understanding the feeling being expressed and interpreting the gestures of love being shown, most of us now are checking the appearance first and regard it as one major criteria for loving someone. should this really be the case? are we really into the outside facade? is loving someone a matter of appearance checking rather than attitude and sincerity?