my aunt

Hi Hadena, she has no right to throw away your stuff and insult you like that, it is your home and your personal space it is up to you how you want to set up your home especially because your house was under renovation. If she did not like the way you set up your house, she may give advice but she has no right to touch your property. You better talk to her and if she is being stubborn you need to warn her that she is not welcome to your home unless if she is behaving and not touching your property. I have this kind of aunt, she is not only annoying and really likes to point out people's mistake and laugh at other people. I know what you feel and I can relate myself. One of my aunts likes to comment on the other family member's life. Althought my father has a good job but he likes to make furniture like book shelf, etc of course we cannot compare the bookshelf he made with the bookshelf on market but Im so proud of my father. So this aunt (my dad's sister) came to my house and she commented how ugly the bookshelf, how ugly is our house, the floor etc. Hah...like she has a good expensive house, she doesnt even has a house! I was 13 years old at that time and I was so angry so I fought her. That was the first time I stand up for my family. I said if she disrespect my parents then why should I respect her. I never met her again until now even we live in the same city, but I just dont care about her anymore she also hurted my mother's feeling.