What you have to do
By iswinar1
@iswinar1 (21)
Indonesia
2 responses
@else22 (4317)
• India
17 Apr 12
Hi iswiner,first of all,WELCOME TO MYLOT.I wish you a great success in Mylot.
If I see my wife sleeping with someone else other than me,I won't do anything.I would just make her free to marry the man or whatever she likes to do.Married is based on mutual trust,and once this trust is violated,the marriage is automatically broken.I don't sleep with other women and I expect the same loyalty from my wife.
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
Wow, else22, that's one of a kind answer. I don't think many men would be willing to just give up their wives to the other man, without a fight. But, Im glad to hear that you are a faithful husband. That's every wives' hope and your wife, in particular is lucky to have you.
iswinar1, I'm going to tell you my husband's answer to your question, as he always tells me whenever we have these discussions. He said he's really going to kill the guy and that would be the only time, he's going to hurt me physically. but, well, Im sure that's never going to happen, because I love him so much and our family and I would never do anything to break my vows to him.
@else22 (4317)
• India
18 Apr 12
Hi jureathome,it's my nature.Not that I fear someone,but I don't want to create problems in my life.I have a lot of responsibilities.My parents have big expectations from me.Why should I drag them and myself into trouble.If a woman is not satisfied with me as my wife,I would just leave her.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
26 Apr 12
That would be awful. I would more than likely get a divorce. I don't think that I would be able to stay with my husband if he cheated on me. It would be to difficult to handle and get over. Some people do stay and are able ti make it work and strengthen their marriage.
