I Was Shocked

I understand how you feel, I went through a tough time myself and my mother was pretty hurt with all the things I did before. But she helped my through it and now I'm sober, with a stable job taking care of myself. It's okay to be angry, but it is also important to show that you have not given up on her. It may take a really long time for her to recover, it could take years even like myself. The most important thing you need to do is to show her that you still hope for her to change, show her that she is in all your prayers, and that you love her no matter what. It is very important to show her that she is better than what she is now. As for what my parents did to me, they didn't send me to rehab, they sent me somewhere remotely impossible to contact my friends. Another country. Where I had no choice but to work the whole summer, someone had to look after me to make sure I wasn't getting any fun. Even if I didn't stop my habits right away, I changed. I learned the importance of money, work and family. I learned that life isn't easy. It took time, but I got better. All I'm saying is that, "Don't give up on her yet". Just be there.

wow i would be shocked and angry as well , i hope you can find a way to get her off them and out of the gang because i dont want to see kids go down that path.