What is better to love or to be loved?
By Victoria222
@Victoria222 (675)
Russian Federation
April 18, 2012 10:22am CST
What is better to love or to be loved? In my opinion, tobe loved is more important than to love, because you do not hurt yourself, you feel much better. but to love is important too because you can understand yourself. And it will be bad to love only yourself and do not carry about others.
what is your opinion?
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6 responses
@superfearless (15)
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2 May 12
I think it's better to be loved first because you're sure that someone really is in to you. But be sure to love the person whom loved you first. It's quite confusing. hehe
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
2 May 12
yeah. it is really important to love theperson who ove you. because not everyone do that. it is really bad to be in this situation.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
20 Apr 12
Well, in my opinion to be Loved is quite important especially when you are a child growing up, but later on in life it is just as important I feel to Love and to be Loved back, because if you do not learn to show Love towards one another then there will always be problems and no one might not want to love you back.
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
21 Apr 12
i agree with you. if ypu do not lve another person you willnever be married and will leave your life alone. and it is awful.
@youless (112603)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Apr 12
I rather to be loved. If I love someone who doesn't love me, it will really hurt me. And this kind of love will not have a good ending. If someone who loves me deeply although I don't love him now. But perhaps one day I will be moved and love him. There is still a future to it.
I love China
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
18 Apr 12
yeah, i agree with you all the way. I hate it when you love somebody and they do not love you back. Why to love in that case? I prefer that somebody loves me first then shows me and i will love them too. Especially when i like one person and he begins to love me. it sounds great ;)
and to be loved is quite pleasant :)
@sonaimajumdar (950)
• India
18 Apr 12
To love and to be loved, both are different things. But , if you want to be loved from some one, you should truly love that person too. And both the feelings are great. Whenever you will experience the feeling to love someone or to be loved, you will know what i am talking about.
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
18 Apr 12
of course, hope it will happen soon. i have heard about it. butwhat to do if you, for example dislove that person? mm than we begin to regret about past, that we loved this person that do not deserve our love:) to be loved to be loved all the way lol
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
18 Apr 12
yes, that's the one main thing in love. but inside everyone wants this person to love them back, doesn't they? If that person can not love them back it hurts. There comes pain, tears and unhappy life. That is why i prefer to be loved. and sometimes To be loved is more important than to love.:)
@amy77824 (147)
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18 Apr 12
I think to love is more important.
This is because when you love something you give it care and you help them or it to do well.
This makes you feel happy about yourself and it brings out who you really are deep inside.
To be loved just makes you fell good about yourself and you don't see your true self because your not the one showing your love.
This i know because i know i am loved but it makes no difference in my attitude or personality.
On the other hand when i love something i care for it like it is my most prized possession and make sure it is in perfect order or has really good health.
Overall to love helps bring the real you out as to be loved doesn't do much
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
18 Apr 12
yes, you are right. i felt the same but then i understood that one person didn't deserve my love. it makes me sad. now i wonder how i could love him and nw i do not like to be near him. to be loved make us stronger, we feel more confident, and it improve us at the same time:) i think that both are good :D
