How long would you wait to meet people off the Internet?

hi! over the past 2 years i've met several mylotters in person. some of them i continue to chat with outside of mylot and some i still go out with at present. meeting online friends in person for the first time varies from one person to another depending on my comfort level. if it's generally women that i've built instant rapport with, i don't wait too long... we just agree on the free time we both have. if it's men, it's usually several weeks until i get the vibe. if it's with a group, it's easy. if alone, i guess i have to be comfy first. but so far i've enjoyed meeting them outside of mylot.

I guess it depends on that someone. If you feel suspicious, then try interacting with that person longer before meeting up with him/her off the Internet. It's like getting to know the person first. Hope you have fun meeting with your online friends!

Wait after meeting them online to meet them off line, do you mean? I think that depends on the person. I have met some people that I wouldn't worry a bit about meeting offline a few weeks after meeting (although it's always a good idea to meet in a public place) but some, I would hesitate to meet offline at all, even after knowing them for years. Follow your instinct, but be careful.

It all depends on the people. Just like people off line, people are all different I met my husband on line, and we chatted for about three years before metting. We wanted to meet within the first year, but he was caring for a dying woman, and we wanted to wait till she passed away.

I have a friend who meets her online friends really fast. Sometimes she has only chatted with them for some days or a week before they decide to meet in person. I have never met my online that friends after such a short period. I have found two of my close friends on the internet. One of my friends and I exchanged emails for a half a year or something like that before we met for the first time. When we met in real life we got along extremely well and we talked for hours. My other friend and I exchanged emails and chatted for some months. One day we exhchanged phonenumbers and we started writing text messages as well, and then we finally decided to meet. Our meeting also went well and we have been friends since that time.

hi,good to hear that, you are going to meet your friends. There is no time limit, to say , that we can meet certain people , after soo much time. Only one thing we should keep in mind is, many times we fail to judge ,our close friends , with whom we spent a long time, so think well ..........