When your upset and just need to vent,weres the first place you go??..

When I have something that I need to talk about, the first person who I will go to is my best friend. I know that she will always be there to listen to me if I need her to be, and this is something that I have always been thankful for and I will continue to be thankful for it. I have always been there for her as well, and I think that this is a good thing to if you're nice to people because this means that they are going to be nice to you in return and means that you are always going to have somebody there for you if you should need it for whatever reason in the future.

I can’t see how venting works for you. It never works for me. Sometimes it gets me angry and if I get very angry I loose my ability to be rational and that never helps. So how is venting helpful? Am I not understanding the definition of venting? Am I venting now?

It depends. Sometimes, I vent here, sometimes, I vent to my boyfriend, and sometimes, my friends or family.

I do not tend to react or whine in some pkaces... If i am feeling realy bad that particular day and nwed to vent out just about anything the only place is not a public place but either to a prayer room or to home if there is no one else especially if i am going through some private part.

Hi xXxMikessWifeyxXx, when I feel the need to vent , its ether with my friends or my daughter...I find it difficult to vent to strangers about personal stuff..... I have read a lot or venting from mylotters but it still haven't changed my mind.... But I do know the feeling of feeling calm from venting....lol...