Love is a drug, and I'm going to "rehab"

Well, given the age you guys are in, the fact about chilling out and enjoying holds great... It is not only the Americans but this is common to many countries where the cost of the currency is higher. when you say - you still want him to work for his goals, let me tell you what I learned from my experiences - girls are more responsible and much more mature in their thoughts and beliefs when we consider the same age people in between genders - so at any given age, a girl is more mature, more focused and more thoughtful than the boy of her age... this is proven by science and is not a mere thought. So I can relate to your wants and down somewhere I do agree with you as after the mid 20s, you do start becoming more serious towards your goals and responsibility. I wish you good luck with your time, study and also your love of life.

Hi,thesids~ Man,I miss ya~ Don't blush now (Kidding too! Well,not about the "miss ya" part.)Haven't seen you for a long time. And yeah,I know,it's my fault. I don't know. I like him a lot,but sometimes he just spends too much time on playing games and watching tv and not enough time working.Maybe it's just the difference between our cultures. Some Americans do seem to value more of freedom and chilling than money. I,on the other hand,still want him to work for his goals.So I don't know,really. One thing I do know is that I still have so much to learn and I need some personal time,too. Love is wonderful,but it shouldn't be an obstacle on our way to success. True love should be the one that can motivate us. So I'm glad that your love gave you dreams and goals. :) Have a nice weekend~

Hehe,that's the problem. He's older than me. Actually ten years. So you can see it now why I'm worried. If I were dating a guy at the same age, I might be fine with it. I just dunno. Anyway,thanks for your wishes~

I absolutely agree.

Hi,sanofer~ Sorry for the late reply. Been busying preparing for mid-term. Yeah,spending 24 hours for one person is bad. And I always feel guilty after spending a lot of time with him just watching TV.Since I'm already a junior,I also need to think about my future seriously. Getting more control of my time now and that's good. And my dad has also been complaining that I don't call him that often in the past months.So yeah, family members are important. Thanks for your reply~Have a nice weekend~

Hi,sweetloveforeve~ Yeah,you're quite right. Love help the ones in it get better. But we still need to remain a part of ourselves. Thanks for sharing Have a nice weekend~

Hi,rinakitto~ Sorry for the late reply. Well, I haven't been paying a lot of attention to events happening around the world because I don't have my laptop brought with me when I'm at his place. I watched less of my favorite TV shows. I haven't followed the new albums coming out in the last year either. Just a lot of things. And I'm spending way too limited time on studying my Adobe softwares. So yeah,I could say it was pretty bad.

@boboskull: I'm very sorry to hear that. Ending a relationship is always hard,especially a long one. But yeah,that's one downside of having a relationship. Once it breaks, it is hard for us to get back to the single life. We will constantly think about the times we had together. So yeah,keeping part of your own habits is important. It helps you not to be too dependent on the other person. Anyway,hope you feel better. @arlera: Hey,he's much older than me. And frankly speaking,I don't know if it's gonna have a happy ending. Sometimes I want to let him go so that he would have more chances to meet new women and probably find the one that suits him most. But he seems to know that I don't want to settle down yet and...it's just complicated. I'm sorry that it ended. Hope you and him both well.

hi,i just ended a five year relationship because i felt it was best for this guy im much older than him,so i know what it feels like

Hi,UIUI~ I like time with him, but I do feel guilty about spending all the time watching tv and movies instead of reading some masterpieces and learn some other things. I believe you're quite right. We need our own time to improve ourselves. This is how we keep attracting our partners. Thanks for your reply Have a nice weekend~

Hi,ONLYHOPE~ Sorry haven't seen your reply until now. Well,you should love yourself first. Because if you don't, you would get heartbroken so hard when she said no to you.(which I hope will never happen between you two) But yeah,you should give her some freedom so she doesn't get suffocated.