How to deal with quarrel in relationship.

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You have to make sure that when you fight you talk things through and make up. If you don't do this, then you might find that things continue for far too long when they just don't have to. Whenever I argue with my partner, I make sure that we stay up and resolve the issue, and I will never let him walk out on me because at the end of the day things need to be talked about otherwise they're just not going to be sorted out. Everyone has to fight sometimes, but it is the way you deal with these fights that is the most important thing.

hi there, my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 years now. nothing has changed except that we are more mature now and our concerns are like real already like mature stuffs. we do argue sometimes, but it's nothing really serious. he still treats me like a princess and gives me everything he can and treats me to places i haven't been to. i hope it lasts forever. and we are planning to get married in 2 years but i hope everything goes smoothly. i mean we argue and we have our own ups and downs too but we try to get through them and we just want to get through it. i am always the one that comes to him first because he is such a baby hahaha when i start talking and talking and talking he just laughs at me and so then we just laugh at each other LOL we never really want to be fighting a lot. it is hard for me to get mad at him because he is such a sweet boy. and everything is just special for the both of us. we are each others first boyfriend and girlfriend oh and the hardest part of it, he is far away from me. he is New York, working. he is born and raised there and we only met when he came here for a vacation and since then he comes home to me twice a year but for the past 5 years maybe, he only comes here once a year because of his work... and i miss him all the time

The best way to deal with quarrels..is to maintain "silence" Instead of arguing un-necessarily it is good to be silent and calmly think over the issue which led to the argument.Then one will soon realize the mistake done by each. But the next step, is that one should be able to accept one's mistake,for which mostly no-one is ready.. False prestige and ego clashes are the primary reasons for any break up.. In order for a relation to sustain one needs to have ever lasting love,faith in one another,without which nothing is possible...

Communication is very important in a relationship. Handling misunderstandings is another vital part and should be learned by each individual. As the relationship grows, so will all other aspects of your partnership. For me and my husband, if we get in to a misunderstanding, one of us remains calm while the other is in rage. If both of us fires up, nothing good will happen. We tend to take some time to cool down before talking, and this gives us the time to reflect on what really happened and realize each other's mistakes.