i need your advice.
By Victoria222
@Victoria222 (675)
Russian Federation
April 19, 2012 5:14am CST
okey, i will never thought about it. but when you do not like one person what should you do get read of him/her?
i had anice friend, we were together, but then she started to think that she is too cool, that she can be angry at me without any reason to tell me bad words.
i do not like it at all, i tried to explain her that she's the same like verybody out here. but she did not understant it.
then we argued i told that i would never talk to her again. and we did not talk one day. and today she came to me and did not even apologise but she was not right. she looked so miserable so i could not tell no. and i forgave her.
but i do not want to talk to her like we talk earlier. she a b!tch i think. she is very evil. i think sheuses me, because she stayed alone. nobody in our group wants to talk to her. and i do not want. what to tell her? she soooo annoying!!!!
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5 responses
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Well, just tell her the truth that she is very annoying and she is making others feel annoyed. Tell her in a sincere way and make her feel that you only want her to change for the better. But if she doesnt listen, then just ignore her.
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
i have told her about it, but may be he thinks that i am just angry and do not think about it when i will be in a good mood. but it does not matter my mood is dad or good he is annoying all the time. her voice is so awful i hate it verym much. and when i have a better chance not to talk to her. i have missed it. i am angry with myself because of it. ;( Now i think that i must have just gone away from her and pretended to ignore her or disappointing in her. my stupid desicions always make my life bad.
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
may be i am confused too. i do notknow what to do. it is too hard. but now i think it will hurt her if she stays alone. i do not think that she will change, she is so quite, she was kind when we first met. but now she has changed a lot. and now i think that she is amonster lol she only does something for her benefit. i hate these type of people
@jvincent_129 (4994)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Maybe you were just very good friends. It's hard to avoid someone you've been with for a long time. Make her be a better person.
I am really confuse now. She annoys you but when you're avoiding her, you tend to be drawn towards her.
@joslyn32 (23)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Sorry to tell you, most people around us are so annoying..actually sometimes we are circle of people that are not lovable and get our nerve,i guess you should get used to it,I advice you that be patient and understand her even she is not under stable,but always say what you like to say,say it with boldness even she is not listening at least you do your part.
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
2 May 12
yeah, i will try to do so. but she is really getting on my nervous., i think i have already been used to it. it is lasting since the first of september. that is really annoying. i hope that i will get over it and move on. at last i must find myself happybecause in 1.5 year i will never see her... finally..
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
It's simple, you just don't talk to her much. Just answer her questions just to be polite but end the conversation there. Do something else, keep yourself busy. Go home immediately and tell her that you need to help your mom or something.
These types of people wouldn't get it until they realize that you're serious. Perhaps she's like that to you because she's overly comfortable. She thinks that she could just do that to you without the need to be sorry or apologize. So it's up to you if you're just going to let her push you over.
Good luck! Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
19 Apr 12
yeaaah you are quite right. You discribed her very clear. yes, may be she has a bad life i donot know butwhy to anno me. i am not guilty and it is not my fault. i try to get rid of her. i try to talk to other people to be in a group, because she is talking only to me. and i think that we are too far from the others. i do not want it seems like this. i want to talk to others not to her. she is just thinking that she is the only normal now. but now i hate her. she tries to make me not to talk to the others. i can not ven describe my emotions clearly.
have a nice day. good luck
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
2 May 12
People like that can really be irritating. They feel like they own the world and they are the ones who will be the boss. Thing is you just have to show them that you don't like them. You can tell them to stop talking to you but if they don't get it, fine! but don't let them still hang around with you. Go with others and keep yourself busy. I just hope they will learn what their mistakes are.
@superfearless (15)
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2 May 12
I think you should talk to her about her attitude towards you and other people. Let her understand what she is doing is wrong. And give her advices that you think it could help. If she doesnt want to listen to you just dont talk to her that much but be always available if she needs someone to talk to. Later on if you continue being nice to her she'll realize that even if shes rude to you you're still nice.
@Victoria222 (675)
• Russian Federation
2 May 12
aww yeah. but it is annoying for me t be there for her when nobody did. she really make me be away from her. i know she does not want it. she can refuse form everything easily. she says strange words that are not fashionable to talk. she is strange and very bad but she thinks that she is a queen. i hate it when people do so. when i 1 met her she was not talking to anybody she was very shy but ow she thinks that she is better than anybody around. but it is not so.
