Freedom is my birthright, and I will have it.

@Vvance (280)
United States
April 19, 2012 5:51am CST
I saw these words somewhere and was struck by how much truth they contained. Especially because I've been comparatively inactive on myLot for a while now(and I apologize for that), I could relate to those words of wisdom. Well, maybe it's more because I think a lot about these things. Anyway, the thought rings true for almost everyone around, I'd say. Of course, we all say that we live in countries that are independent, and that we're all free from oppression of any sort. But what about the more subtle types of oppression that go unnoticed? For example, if you're like billions of others, your only life-plan as a kid was to study hard, get a job, and somehow make both ends meet, until you retire and finally kick the bucket. Even the rich are not at peace, as they're up to their eyeballs in responsibilities. Who IS free then? What would you do if you weren't in the shackles of society? What would you do if you didn't need a job or did not have to take care of your children? What if you were, in every sense of the word, free?
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@jjzone44 (917)
• United States
19 Apr 12
Hi Vvance, Well the one universal truth is that freedom is not free; you either work for it, or fight for it, but it's not really granted to you. Like you said, even the rich who seem to have it all are not at peace. But you touched on something there, money. It seems that money is often associated with freedom. In the movie "Wall Street", the character Gordon Gekko spoke of freedom in relation to money. He said something about having enough money to not only fly anywhere you want, but enough to own your own jet so you were free to fly at any time you want. When money is used as the yardstick, freedom is never free. But there is a group of people that you might not consider free, but if you examine them closer, you'll see that maybe they are. Look at the nomads, they move about from place to place, and they usually carry everything they own with them. The poor often seem happy even though they only have the basic necessities to survive. Both these groups have almost nothing you can take from them, and they are free to move from place to place. Maybe they are the ones that are truly "free"?
@jjzone44 (917)
• United States
20 Apr 12
I think it depends also on what an individuals idea of freedom is. If a person chooses to measure their freedom financially then that's what they do. I have been guilty of measuring freedom like that at times, but I now think personal freedom is the ability to move about and do as you please (without breaking the law or harming others of course). I once worked with a woman, who's son accepted a new job about 1700 miles away in California. He placed all his belongings in two cardboard containers that he took to his mom's house, and later she shipped them via common carrier to his new address. He took his laptop with him and a few necessities. I remember thinking that was so awesome that he could just move about like that, I remember thinking he truly had freedom to do as he wished, he had nothing to tie him down. One can amass things of value but they can become anchors when one wishes a change. Owning a home sounds like a great idea, until you want to move at it becomes the anchor that holds you in place. You are at the mercy of the market unless you want to sell low. So you pay mortgage on something that you can only posses for a finite time, and with the interest what do you really gain? Where's the personal freedom in that?
@Vvance (280)
• United States
23 Apr 12
I agree. I've thought about it a lot and come to the conclusion that even financial freedom is intended to achieve the same thing - that is, like you said, moving about and doing as one pleases. That's really rare, seriously!! There are probably very few people who can move so easily as and when they want to.
@Vvance (280)
• United States
19 Apr 12
Hi there Jjzone, Really been a while, hasn't it? Feels good to get back in touch and share ideas again. That's a good one too - 'freedom is not free'. Ironic but true. Oh yeah, I love that movie. And I totally agree with your observation, money IS very much associated with freedom. Maybe that's because in this day and age, the attainment or possession of anything and everything requires money. People do equate money with fulfillment, and I guess we can't blame them. That's what society taught them. I have felt that way - that the poor are happier - too!!! People are so afraid of becoming poor they don't stop to ponder what the poor have that they don't. I remember J.K. Rowling once saying: "Rock-bottom became the solid foundation from which I rebuilt my life". Maybe you're right. They just might be the ones who are really free. I would love to try being a nomad or a 'poor' person for a while, to see how peaceful it really is.
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@lekhya (819)
• India
19 Apr 12
"Freedom is my birthright and i shall have it"..these are the golden words of Sri LOKMANYA BAL GANGADHAR TILAK...a famous indian freedom fighter,who dedicated and sacrificed his entire life to free the Nation from the clutches of the British.. Now coming to your discussion... Freedom is necessary in everyone's life.Man is continuously under stress in the process of making plenty of money."HE IS HELD BY THE SOCIETY AND ITS RULES"..As along as we live in this society its hard to enjoy our freedom.No one is free,happy and stress free now a days.U seldom find such people.. For me freedom..is not to roam around freely..do whatever i want without any stoppage... For me it is completely related to the freedom to think and freedom to take decisions,without getting influenced by the society and our relationships...
@Vvance (280)
• United States
19 Apr 12
Hi lekhya, Thank you for sharing your knowledge!! I knew these words were meant for a political context but they also apply to one's everyday life. Excellent ideas you've got there!! I hope you do get to do what you want!
@lekhya (819)
• India
19 Apr 12
Yes,they do apply to one's every day life...Its an effective statement... I always love "freedom of thought"... I want to rule my mind and can't bare anyone's intervention... But,at the same time,i care a lot for other's feelings.I listen to others and sometimes take decisions that are good for the society and the people rather than me..Its not always good to be stubborn and bold.Sometimes,we should listen to our elders and our family and then decide...
@peavey (16936)
• United States
19 Apr 12
The older I get, the more freedom I realize. I don't make much money any more and I don't need it. My home, my car and everything else is paid off. Nope, they're not new and they're not fancy, but they're mine and they do what they're supposed to. I'm free from wanting and needing the next new thing or from trying to keep up with the Joneses. Certain things are never free, though, because when we take what we think are our rights, we infringe on someone else's rights. Do I have the right to play loud music at 2 AM with all the doors and windows open? Not really. My neighbors have a right to a more or less quiet night to sleep. Freedom is a give and take. It's never all give and it's never all take. It's a balance.... but I agree that it's mine and I will have it, to the extent that it's practical and attainable.
@Vvance (280)
• United States
21 Apr 12
Congratulations on your freedom Peavey! You certainly sound like you have everything you want! I agree with you that certain things are indeed not free, to the extent that we live in a society that entangles the lives of all of its members. What we do affects the person next to us and what they do affects us. But I do hope that we will all live lives with as much freedom as possible, which is, of course, the point of all existence.
@SinfulRose (3527)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Apr 12
I probably will put my shackles back on. lol Really?! If I were free (from my father and debts)...I will really take up the responsibility of the many by becoming rich--a provider of jobs. This is my freedom, and the reason why I live. While being rich, why couldn't I live in a farm and care for my plants and animals? Or why can't I be a lowly worker for other people while I have millions in my account already and an owner of a very successful business? Who's to say I can't be any of those...if I am free...?
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
19 Apr 12
Real freedom will only exist if it's in you. If you choose for yourself, if you are able to leave home, family, homecountry to be with you, if you don't depend on others or need social care/help. Freedom has to be inside of you and you need courage to live that life.
@Vvance (280)
• United States
21 Apr 12
That is true! Courage is indeed required for one to live that way. But how many people are tied down by their responsibilities as parents, siblings or professionals? That is probably why more people don't leave all behind and try to attain true freedom.