Why do we need to care of our hubby?
By jinky2012
@jinky2012 (438)
Philippines
April 19, 2012 9:57am CST
To those who are married like me,we need to take care of our hubby,despite for all the bad things that happened to our life,we need to be stronger enough to save for our love or relationship.We think that everything happen for a good reason..Especially to those women that their hubby have another girl to their life we need not to allow them to do it.instead cut their relationship as soon as possible.as God said for better or worse,we need to love each other.we are committed to accept all the things happening and think that things will gonna be ok?
For those who are married like me,did you experience already that your husband had been affair to another girl..?what did you do?
11 responses
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
Hi there,
i think us women are really like that, still very loving no matter what, even though we have been hurt for a couple of times already.
i am not married but i have a boyfriend of almost 8 years now and we haven't had any problems like that and i hope never.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
i hope so too. i just want everything to go smooth. we want to get married in two years but we will see. there are still a lot of things to take care of 
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
hello,
wow you are 8 years! good,,,but be sure that you will be him already forever...hehehe..hmm,i mean you keep your relationship strong and treasure it.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
20 Apr 12
i did not experience this. however i had a friend with some related issues. they could not sustain the relation and got divorced. it is very difficult to live together after being known to each other that they are not faithful. Marriage is one relation which is based on trust. if trust is lost, it evidently means the end of the story.
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
its good to know that you never been xperienced that kind of situation.and to your friend they just not meant for each other.just accept the reality because everything has a purpose in life.thare are always good reason why those things happen to our life
@soulist (2985)
• United States
19 Apr 12
For me it helps me show that I love him dearly. Taking care of him helps me show I want to make sure he is well taken care of. AS it was said before it is able part of obligation to him to make sure that his needs are well taken care of. He is the man I love, why wouldn't I want to take care of him?
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
yes its good to hear that from you.we really need to take care for our hubby,love them and give them back what they deserve.because most of our hubby is the one who doing things to make our life successful.as they say if we build a house they are 4 walls of our house..
@keshlois143 (713)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
I do not just need to take care of my husband but I also guard him even at the lobby of falling into another woman's arms. The moment I feel he has been treating a lady so specially I would remind him of such unusual acts and tell him to be careful. By then, he will have an extra care and beware of dealing with ladies. Anf of course, I do guard him also in prayer. I always pray that he will be saved from falling into an extra affair. In taking care of him, I just do what I really can. I do not struggle because I have to take care of myself, too.
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
22 Apr 12
yah i agree with you,we need also to love ourselves.not allthe love you will do to it.we just let our trust build with them,because if there is trust automatically love is build also.!
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
hello. that is very true, we need to take good care of our husband same as they are with us. a relationship to be successful needs to have a balance of everything and both should work it out. i thing i learned about marriage is to never overdo anything and that includes taking care of our husband. we must not take care of them like a baby for they will not like that and will feel overprotected as if we are holding them in ther neck.
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
definitely yes,I agree to you and whatever it takes they are our husband.And we need to love them as they want to and vice versa.
@thuglove1722 (343)
• United States
20 Apr 12
man that sucks i don't understand how a man can take advantage especially if there married if he's cheated on you im sorry you deserve better than this
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
yah thanks for the opinion,,but how can you say it or do it if you have already kids in both of your life?
@nagatron123456 (888)
• Philippines
22 Apr 12
We, men like to be pampered and being cared by our women so the love will we feel will be maintained. If women doesn't show any care, we started to feel like it is boring and we tend to look for comfort from other women who know how to make us feel alive again. Aside from being your obligation as a women, caring is also important to make a relationship grow stronger. Both individual should care for each other.
@angelwithkids (1256)
• United States
20 Apr 12
i can honestly say neither husband has cheated on me. the first one and i just didn't know how to communicate better as we got older. the second one and i communicate all the time! i have (and still do) take care of them and spoil the second one. (more so than i did with the first). what gets me, for better or worse, sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, and i give him all the support he needs and go the extra miles to show how much he is appreciated, but when i need a little reassurance, i get ignored. :( hhmmmmmm....time to communicate some more!! :D
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
I think taking care of your husband is your sworn obligation to your husband when you get married.I haven't been married but I have witnessed many weddings and I heard that it is not merely an obligation to your spouse but both of you promised and sworn to God that you will love each other no matter what circumstances may take you.When both of you received the sacrament of marriage, you indulge yourself to your husband to be his lawfully wedded wife and as a wife taking care of your husband is just right even if your husband has another girl outside your marriage.
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
yes i agree with you.that husband and wife are committed to each other to love one another and protect each other.
@bhonti (1246)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
We are not married yet. But I do not want to see him with another girl.
My cousin's relationship with her husband is currently in great trouble. Two years ago, we found out about his affair, my cousin tried to save their marriage. They are still living together, and now, the husband has another child with his mistress. 
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
19 Apr 12
You don't need to take care of you hubby it's something you decided to do an and you spoil them with that. They take it for granted, won't say thanks and dump you in the end because you are a dull, boring house wife and looked way better as you met or were way more fun. At the moment you meet they are mostly able to take care of themselves very well. If you don't take care of him he will take care of himself again and not die because he never grown up or is pathetic or disabled.
My ex had many affairs, I left him and it was the best thing I could do for me and my kids. Men like that don't deserve a wife at all.
