find lover

i'm married for about 3 years. all i can say is that don't look for love. let love find you. cause the more you look for it the more it eludes you. if you'll look for it, there's a tendency that it won't work the way you wanted it to work.

What exactly are you talking about or are you looking for or do you want? It's hard for me to understand. Do you want a boyfriend or husband or? There is a time for everything. I think you should work on yourself first. Find out who you are, what you want and take care and love and respect yourself. Only if you are able to do that someone else will be able to do the same to you. Having a boyfriend is not utopia. Having a relationship means you have to be able to give but also to take. BTW not everybody is looking for love (given by someone else). There is nothing wrong with being happy alone.

You need to quit being so down on it and yourself. Just go out have some fun, go to places for your age group or even just interests. When you see a guy you like and you want to talk to him, just go for it. Start the conversation off easy with just a simple 'hi how are you doing'? .. Once you get a few lines out the nerves will slowly but surely start to drift to the back of your mind as you reach your own comfort level. Goodluck

Hello mylotter friend.I am respond your talk with sorrow because you lives without lover.My best wishes with you for this matter and u got your boyfriends soon for love and enjoy that pleasant moments with your boyfriend.

hadena, enjoy your life! Don't find love let love find you as they say.You just feel that right guy will come on your way.Because every women has the right guy for them.Just stay happy and then suddenly he will come on your way!

I am sorry to hear that your pessimistic is getting the best out of you regarding your outlook about love. But cheer up, because life is full of surprises you'll never know when someone might come along to save you from your solitary existence. I've never been in a relationship for quite a while now, but I am fine being single for now. I've been through a lot of sad endings in terms of love life but you know what? I still believe in love. Purely and utterly. I am not the most beautiful person one could ever meet, but I believe I have some qualities worth celebrating for. And despite all my flaws, I firmly believe that I am worthy of someone's love, at the right time. I suggest that you focus more on yourself for now, because when the right time will come for you to meet that special someone, the love that you are capable of giving and the love that you have invest in yourself will be magnanimous enough for you and for your partner to live a life that dwells on beautiful things, as beautiful as true love.

Don't despair as time would come when the right one comes along. As above, don't look for him, as he would look for you. I think it would be better to channel or focus your attention on loving yourself, improving yourself, and with that, i think the right one would notice what's inside you.

I missed the feeling of having a boyfriend. but hoping someday i'll find one.

almost all of my colleagues got married or have bf, but for me, everytime i thought i was in love with someone, the result come out to be a cheat or something worse. when will i find love, maybe im not that lucky to meet one, lol