Ex-boyfriend

China
April 20, 2012 9:23am CST
Are you still contact with your ex-boyfriend ? Are you regret that you ever said goodbye to your exboyfriend ? Will compare your boyfriend with your ex-boyfriend ? Does you ex-boyfriend still in love with you ? There are lots of discussions about ex-boyfriend,would you say something about your ex-boyfriend? I still contact with my exboyfriend,but i just want to be a friend of him.It seems he still in love with me ,but i have told him that we never be together?
1 person likes this
9 responses
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
24 Apr 12
I don't talk to my ex-boyfriends anymore. My first ex-boyfriend and I were friends after we broke up, but it didn't work out. I broke up with him because I wasn't in love with him anymore, and after we broke up he tried to convince me to try again. Every time we were together he talked about our relationship and how much he wanted us to become a couple again, and we weren't able to have a normal friendship, because he always wanted to be more than friends. My second long term relationship ended in a bad way. We had a long time relationship in the beginning and after some time we decided that I was going to move to his town. I found a school in his town and when I was about to start he changed his mind and broke up with me. We haven't talked since that time. My third long term relationship lasted several years, and after we broke up we talked every once in a while. I am married to another man today, and I don't talk to my ex-boyfriend anymore.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
21 Apr 12
I am glad, still after many years, my ex are exes. It's still ab big relief after 21 years my ex husband is my ex and I don't have contact anymore. My ex always turn into obsessive people after I left. Trying to make my life and the kids as miserable as possible. Not because of love but because of the fact they can't stand to be dumped. Kind of ironic if you know they were never interested or showed any attention or were attentive as soon we had a relationship. They did not accept their kids, ignored them and always had several gf next to me. My life only improved (in every way) without them. Ex should be exit.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
21 Apr 12
dont know.
• United States
20 Apr 12
i am in contact with a few of my ex boyfriends but we do not talk like every day. there is only 1 that i spoke with every day until we had a fight and now we no longer talk. i regreted how things ended with him. i am married now but i do not compare them. when me and my ex 1st broke up i did catch myself comparing him to the guy i liked or the guy i was dating. when we 1st started talking again i did feel like i had some feelings for him but after thinking to myself i realized i didnt miss him i missed the times we had together. i missed the fun we had. i missed how he made me feel. i told him how i felt a few times and we thought about hanging out to find out how we truely felt but i decided that wasnt in my best intrest he hurt me very bad and i am sure he would do it again. we stayed friends for years until he got a girlfriend who thought it was somthing more even though i had gotten married in that time period and wanted nothing but friendship with him. so as of now we do not talk but id love to change that because he has always been a great friend i could tell anything to and he was always there to listen and talk and help me if i needed it.
@TheIzers (680)
21 Apr 12
I still be friend with my ex and he is still single, sometimes he still lend me his hand for some stuff when it's needed. However, I keep our communication open to my husband to avoid misunderstanding.
@TheworD (42)
• United States
20 Apr 12
O chick, you gots to cut that off at the knees. You can't be friends with a man who loves you. Especially if he has seen you naked. The ex will take every and all opportunity to step out of the friends zone for a while, in hopes to rekindle what might be still there. This will eventually take a toll on you current relationship or disable you from excepting one. The only way your situation would be exceptable is if the ex turned out to be gay. If he's not pitching for the same team, he can't be an ex love/ friend of mines. I'm just saying.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
20 Apr 12
Are you still contact with your ex-boyfriend ? No Are you regret that you ever said goodbye to your exboyfriend ? No. I do miss being spoiled. Just a little. That's the only thing. Will compare your boyfriend with your ex-boyfriend ? No Does you ex-boyfriend still in love with you ? Don't know. I don't believe he ever has loved me even though he said he does. I think if the girl he was always telling me about wasn't already married, he would have never said that. I'm just the second choice. The fall back crutch. Who wants that? There are lots of discussions about ex-boyfriend,would you say something about your ex-boyfriend? I still contact with my exboyfriend,but i just want to be a friend of him.It seems he still in love with me ,but i have told him that we never be together? + - !
• Russian Federation
20 Apr 12
i do not contact with my ex-boyfriend. i just have not got time for him. he is living his life and i am living mine. we do not even meet, because now i am living at the centre of the town but he is far away. but sometimes i can see him near my house. he makes me laugh. lol he look so sutupid. i have see the statement that says "our opinions are changing and when we see our ex that just makes us smile" lol i agree with it. :)
• United States
20 Apr 12
I absolutely despise my ex. He cheated on me and I want nothing to do with people like that. Unfortunately we go to the same university and there have been a couple of times when our paths crossed. He stares at me and I ignore him. I realize that dating him was a huge mistake and I regret ever meeting him. Even though he broke up with me he took the break up pretty hard. He was having one night stands left and right and all his frat brothers told me that he missed me. Things really went sour when I started dating one of his frat brothers. He did not take that well at all. I will forever hate him. Now I am madly in love with my current boyfriend and things are looking up. We all need to look at our past relationships and figure out what went wrong so that our next relationship will be better and have the chance of surviving. Although sometimes two people are just not meant to be together. When I look at my last relationship I realize that I was only dating him for the experience. I really had no feelings for him but I saw that a guy had an interest in me so I thought I'd give it a shot. With my current boyfriend things are heading towards a ring so I'm glad it didn't work out with the other guy.