How do you know she's the one for you ?
By vertu007
@vertu007 (683)
Romania
April 20, 2012 9:57am CST
I had lunch with a friend today and tomorrow both of us are going to another friend's wedding. He said that he doesn't think the should take this step yet because they don't seem to get along very well. He said they fight a lot and stuff. I told him that maybe they are just stressed because of the wedding and all. He's not the light-headed type of guy and I'm sure he thought this through.
After I got home I started thinking. How do you now if she's the one ? Or for you girls how do you know if he's the one ?
1 person likes this
6 responses
@cnaska (5)
• Canada
20 Apr 12
Well there is a quote I read yesterday about how being in love with someone is when he/she can make you happy in ways nobody else can. Of course all relationships will have ups and downs but it's when the person can make you happier than anyone else can most of the time that it counts. I believe marriage comes into the equation when you can't imagine living without the other person and even if there are arguments, you'd much rather suffer through the occasional one than being miserable everyday without the other person.
2 people like this
@kareemadivina (1230)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
Very well said.What if the other person does not feel the same way you do.Do you think that the marriage will still last?
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
22 Apr 12
There really is no criteria or gauge for telling if the person you're with is the right one for you. It's all about how you feel at that moment if you have visions of you and that person living together forever through thick and thin and through worse case scenarious.
1 person likes this
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
20 Apr 12
You know that pit of the stomach feeling? It's kind of like that, but your races every time you see her, you almost never want to take your eyes off of her, and you start picturing a life with her in it. You start wondering what all of her favor things are and what she wants in life or what she wants to do with her life. You want to know all about her. Everything about her makes you want to be a better person. You want to fight for her love and affections, and you want her to love you back.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
20 Apr 12
You just know it (or feel it) if not, if there is the slightest bit of doubt it's not the real one. But even if this is the case you can ask yourself if you can live with that (nobody is perfect) if you are willing to invest (to make it perfect).
1 person likes this
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
20 Apr 12
First of two people that fight with each other doesn't mean they don't love or that, that person isn't the one.
Me and my husband we don't always get alone or see eye to on things. Which is a good thing because for me I would hated if I was with a guy that agreed with everything that I liked, didn't like wanted or didn't want to do. I didn't want to marry myself that wouldn't be fun. I knew my husband was the one because we just love each other for flaws and all. Even when we drive each other up the wall we still love each other and still want to be together. We can't stay mad at each other for to long.
1 person likes this
@nethraram27 (86)
• India
21 Apr 12
Been trying to figure that out for quite some time now and it drives me crazy! :O :( will definitely let you know when I do.
