I will miss him

For me, I will tell him. Maybe he knows that you like him.

Well you got to take risks somehow i guess. You might regret not telling him how you feel. If you feel uncomfortable telling him in person, then tell it to him through email or text messages before he leaves..so atleast you might have an idea how he feels about you. Go! if he does not reciprocate, atleast you were brave enough to do it and you won't be wasting time thinking about him and you can move on ..and if he also feels the same then you should be happy about it and even if we leaves the country, you can talk to him online more and maybe a relationship will bloom.

Good day Chelogirl, With reference to your discussion, well, it will be better to at least tell him slightly what you feel. So you will know what will be your status. As there are times, we tend to hide our emotions and not divulging it somehow, then we end up regretting. I believe you can do it and say really what do you feel.

Hello friend, I think you like him. So you told him very first. I think he also like you. Best of luck. Have a nice day.

Don't waste your time go and tell him!!!

I think it's okay. You better tell him that now when you still have the opportunity. It's going to be rare chance to do it when he is already working in the other country. Good luck on, chelogirl!

I remember my friend who got very close to me and to my family during his visit in our country. I love almost everything about him. When he was here, we always took a walk outside, go to beautiful places, talk and laugh together. He is a very sweet person too. He is not my boyfriend but we are like loves because we walk hand in hand outside and he is really a gentleman. He stayed with us for 2 months and within those 2 months, I feel something especial for him. When he went back to China, I really feel the longing to be with him again. I know that maybe he knows what I feel for him and he even says those 3 magic words to me before he leave. Actually, I still feel that I have feelings for him but I don't know if I have to say it to him or not. He is younger than me in terms of age but he looks more mature than I am physically.He is now studying in Singapore. A friend told me to tell him the truth. If he loves me too, then it will be a good thing and if he is not, then I should start to move on with it.

Yes, I can perfectly understand that, even if you are not yet involved in a romantic relationship, the distance often makes these tricks. Speaking for myself, I can say I have never had a relationship, and never think of it. Basically speaking, women do not interest me and so I want to stay single for life. For this I do not know exactly what can make you feel really bad when two lovers are far apart. But I know well how it feels when you are away from my own family.

When you are not sure that he likes you too, then should wait more for a while. if he does like you too, then it will be so nice for both you guys...but what happens if he does not like you, then everything will be bad, he may run... 4 months is not long time, during that time, you can know he like you or not...then you will go to the final decision to speak out your feeling or not. Best luck for you!!!

Hello friend, if you like him that say him otherwise may be late. Nothing want to say. Just carry on. Nice to meet you. Have a nice day.

That's the dilemma if you're in a female's position,which is of course where you're in. Its so hard to tell that someone that you like them because of the possibility that he might be cold with you. But it depends. Analyze your situation. If you think he's that kind of guy that wouldn't be affected by issues such as this, then go. If you know him that much, you can somehow predict what his reaction would be. If you can't take it anymore and you really want him that much, you may take the risk to tell him. Take this chance. He might meet someone overseas and you might regret this in the future.

personally, I think those 4 months are your lifeline :) wait it out and at the end of it, you'll know what his absence does to you and if you can cope with it. and when he comes back, you'll automatically know what you want. trust me, you'll then find the strength to do what you gotta do :) good luck!

It is not everyday that we get the chance to meet someone that can make our heart beat the way only love can do. It's not everyday that we are given a chance bump into one person who can make a rather ordinary life a lot more exciting to live for. Only few people are given a chance to experience that, and you are lucky that you are one of them. Love is not always a two way street, but there are infinite possibilities for someone who is brave enough to take the risk of letting this love out in the open. Yes, it can be a tad too daunting to make the first move or to confess what you are feeling towards someone because you are a girl. But there are things worth doing. There are things worth defying the definition dictated by the society. And those who are brave enough to try, those who are courageous enough to take the big step, are the ones who most of the time got what they want in the end. I suggest, you take the risk because true love are meant for the brave. I hope you may have your well deserved happy ending with that person you love.

If he knows that You want him... trust your self. you both can do it

Yes, TELL him. He will have something to look forward to when he comes home. If he likes you the same way, he will be so excited to see you when he comes back. Pay attention to your gut feelings. If he really likes you, you will know it. Don't force it. If he does NOT like you, then let him go. There are PLENTY of young men out there.

I think you should go tell him before everything is too late. I bet he knows about it already. Maybe both of you never had the courage and enough time to talk about those things as of yet. But since he's leaving the country, I guess you should go tell him about it. Just be careful not to expect too much on it though, just be open to anything that could possibly happen. If he tells you that he shares the same feeling towards you then the feeling is mutual. Maybe you guys could start there if this will be the case. But then again, don't expect much. Hope this one helps. ;)