relationship issues

Senatus121, this is why it is called a relationship; as a relationship implies 'the getting to know' one another, trial and error, and it is a timely process. In the getting to know, and the timeline necessary to get to (know of and) about the other person is the real challenge in enjoying a fulfilling relationship. In my opinion, the challenges associated with the success of a relationship usually depends on how the main issues are handled. For example, the challenges to be overcome can manifest itself because, in principle: (1)information is usually incomplete, and sometimes flawed; (2) the persons involved may have been carrying insecurities (baggage from previous relationships) which have not been adequately dealt with; (3) the relative willingness to participate wholeheartedly in the relationship is dependent on many other factors -both of a personal nature and or circumstances; (4) varying levels of commitment brought to the relationship at hand by the parties involved; and (5) the timing and timetable issues to be resolved. The management of the above mentioned challenges may determine how any comination of them contribute to the fluctuation in the intensity of the relationships and/or the relative success obtained in the pursuit of happyness sought after. Hence, getting involved in a relationship, one has to be prepared to deal with the challenges associated with that 'feat' in such a way, that in the end, neither party feels guilted- if the relationship fails to achieve the desired results.

It's something you cannot avoid in a relationship. But every time you are able to withstand whatever bump in the road you might face, the relationship gets stronger.

For some people, they actually look forward to get into a relationship but its not always the case. Most of them just fall into it, what you mentioned comes later and unexpected. Sometimes its jealousy or sometimes its possessiveness! Resisting yourself from getting in a relationship is your choice but at times even though not wanting to get into one you do. The person is just different from others, and you love there presence in your life. Yea, it has a tons of ups and downs but you gotta handle it. Do it together if your partner doesnt join you and u=you still care do it yourself its not gonna harm you, you still love it cause you are doing it for someone you love!