Married men lie for Fun!

I too don't understand why women lie for fun, lol! As above, i think it is not only married men issues, but also married women too and alike. Telling a lie and having fun obviously is a selfish thing to do, but others do find relief and assurance doing so in such a way that it boost their ego as they are afraid of rejection or just trying to prove to themselves that they still have it, lol! But honestly, the extent of telling lie for fun is quite humorous, i.e. I am tall, dark and handsome, which is not true, but may put a smile on someone's face, lol!

Wooo lil bit sexist here.... Married women also do the exact same thing. Infact a study I once read from a survey of x amount of anonymous people (both male and female) returned results that showed something like a 60-40% affair percentage. The higher percentage of 'cheaters' was actually women. Infact if we're completely honest some women (who cheat) can lie so well that it can go on for years. Most men get caught within a few months or their wives at-least know something is going on but don't want to confront it / prove it (to themselves more than anything). Take the marriage aspect out of it and just think of those that will cheat on their partners. It can't really be accurately measured (in my opinion anyways). The reason I say that is because its a choice for them to do it. Sure they cry when found out 'It just happened waa waa waa'. But nothing just happens. They let it happen. So for me its a person by person situation, not a gender situation.

Hi there! It appears that someone (read a married man) has deceived you or made efforts to deceive you ......... You are very right that a married man should play with someone's emotions and make her feel in quandary.

To be fair, women can be just as bad, if not worse than men during many times. Of course, that does not make neither party better than the other, as cheating does know no gender after all. And the reasons for this are going to really be many to say the very least. Perhaps they didn't think this marriage through as well or they don't feel the need to settle down. I think some people if they want to play the field, they should not live the lie of marriage. Because they are doing both themselves and their partner a great disservice to say the very least. There are just going to be many times where they want to have their cake and eat it to. Which is something that happens just all too often.

My friends' brother lied being married and get a woman pregnant, when the woman told him she was carrying his child he told her the truth that he has wife and two kids. He can not leave them because they love them. So the story end with he stays with both woman. He doesn't tell his wife that he has girl pregnant by him.

Well, i am a man but still not married, so i don't know what they like to do. As for lying, i would say that i love to do that just to entertain myself. But i didn't like to hurt people's feeling. So, right after i lie about something stupid, i would always smile awkwardly and laugh so that those people know what i actually doing and laugh along with me. I don't know if this make be a bad person, but it's actually entertain myself once and a while releasing those stress i'm carrying throughout the day.

someone men get married thinking that it will be easier for them to get women. this is because there are many women who love married men. i know this girl that won't mess with a man unless he is married. you see, we can't only blame the men who do this, we also have to blame the women that do it with them.

Hi Tess. I really do not know much how to answer your question. as of the moment, having a 4 years relationship with my husband. i still cannot answer why committed men still cheats with other woman. as for me and my husband, when we were still bf/gf, he cheated me three times! we broke up 3 times also. well i also cheated him for the sake of vengeance but i know it's not right. and then when we have had our baby, it was really quite good to have one because our minds are set to the baby's needs. so we are focused enough to work not for other things. when our baby is 3 months old, our relationship was quite flaky because i seldom sleep with him because i'm nursing the baby so it was less attention to my husband. but then again as time passed our relationship had been good. and until now, it's very good. i do not feel that he has any affair with other woman.it's really a bad feeling to be victim of these. it feels horrible.

Of course you never understand why men lie for fun, because the scenario you described never existed in this world, men don't lie for fun, only few scum married men do that, they are not just men but also part of the SCUMBAG species. Until then, you will understand the reason why you never understand in the first place. Hopefully after you get to know ALL the man in this world, then only you will know that only small number of men lie for fun while vast majority of them are perfect gentlemen and loyal to their wife for a life time.

There are tons of women who are victims of married men. And there are tons of broken family because of "flirty women". Most of the "other woman" knows that the man they lived with or had relationship with are married ones. Only few are victims of men's lying- and- there is always a way to find out if the man/guy is telling the truth before any girls/woman jumps into a relationship. On the other hand- there are also woman who pretends to be single when they're married. Both gender can cheat and both gender do cheat.

sometimes as my married friend said, they just want to have someone else. to our languange another dish to taste with. to enjoy with.because when they are with their wife, they usually fight and talk about problems so I think that is one of the reasons for this. If a woman doesnt want to get involve be careful to those whom you just met

Not all of them. I am sure more of them are not liar.. Just a few of them only and I bet there are married women who did the same. Nowadays we could see how easy a marriage get to the end with so many divorces happen everyday. I am not sure of they really love their partner or what but for one to fall in love and get married they need to think it deeply so the issue like married men or women will not happen in the future.(^^)

Well actually there some women also allow themselves to involve with married men. Every individual here on earth has choices to make but most of the time we choose the one we think make us happy even we know its wrong and its consequences. Life is not unfair to think its just us who make it unfair and a victim of our own choices.

I am not sure why married men lie. I am not sure I want to. However, I must admit that I had very close friends who had full on affairs with married men - knowing very well that they were married. They are no longer my friends, clearly we had a different value system...but they KNEW what they were getting into. I am sure there are women who do not know. However, there are married women that lie too and play around, I knew women like this too. I am not sure if it is a male - female things...as much as a "who you are in your essence" kind of thing. If that makes any sense? I know also that many people lie and this is a huge way of hurting themselves and the people around them. Truth is the only place that Love can reside in. Nowhere else. It is a world of pain for the person who thinks they can get away with cheating!

Hi Tess, it may be that married men feel that the grass is greener on the other side but they want to keep what they have at the same time, sort of like a just in case clause. I honestly don't think all men are like that but maybe they are a rare breed and yu have to look long and hard for them. I personally don't like liars and don't see the need for lying.