What Would You Change?

There is nothing that I would change. The way I see it is that the things that have happened in the past helped make me into the person that I am today. If I did not experience those things I might not have the out look that I have today. I might not have met the people that I have met. I already know if I have a different relationship past, I might not be with the man I call my fiance today. Everything in life adds to the person we are. Why change that?

Hiya amya., So many things have happened along the way to me as well but really I don´t think I would want to change them. A couple of things I would liked to have changed in the moment they happened but I cannot go back in a time machine and redo everything again so there it stays for the record that I did what I could and I could do no more than that in that moment. My list might have been pretty long too at that time but now it is a lot shorter I really don´t know why either myself. I know a lot of People that always want to change everything in their life I can understand them and I don´t blame them either they went through some dreadful times as well. But for me its hard to say in one way as I am in a moment that is not my best either although I am trying to do my best and everything keeps going the other way. Could I do another List I am thinking right now if I could or would change things those niggly things that you can still remember or are they really worth the energy and fuss? Well come to think of it I don´t think they are worth any effort actually.xxx

Oh I am sure there are some things that I would like to change. However, it is not really the matter of wanting to change something. Rather it is if i I should change something. There were some rather valuable life lessons that were learned by the huge things in my life that went wrong. Life lessons which caused me to grow right into the person that I am today. I mean, if I change these things, would the point of those lessons that I learned have been lost? I think that they would be mostly lost to be rather honest with you. Granted, given the chance, I like everyone else would be tempted to make a few changes with what is going wrong right in the past. Of course it would be rather be too easy to have the reset button to white wash the mistake.

I sometimes hear someone said that if they could go back to the past,they would chang something.I also want to go back to the past,but I know that it would never happen to me.So I should learn some lessons from the past.So I agree with someone about changing our attitudes.Anyhow,today is the most important.

This question reminds me of one of those beauty pageant questions lol If I was asked at a Beauty Pageant Q&A if there's anything I'd like to change in my past I'd say not a thing because my past defines who I am today and changing that part of my past is like changing a part of me which means I am not happy being myself now. If a candidate answers she wants to change this or that she sure would fail the Q&A. But if a friend would ask me the same question I would take the whole day I guess to tell him the things I want to change from childhood to being a teenager lol

honestly my life is good just the way it is.but if i had to i would go back and change some of the bad grades i got :p .

I would have spent a lot more time with my brother before he passed away. I would want to talk to him about everything before he left. I miss having him around to talk to.

I think that this is a hard question, and I think that I have made some pretty dumb decisions in my time. There are a few relationships that I wish I could completely cut out of my life. However, thinking about it a little bit more, I don't know whether I would actually want to change that because I know that I am happy now, and changing anything about my past might mean that I would never become the person who I am today. I am good person now, and have learned from all of the mistakes that I'd made, and I don't think that I would ever have been able to be the same person without making those mistakes first.

There are only two things I want change in my past. The first one was about my college life and the second one was a big mistake I did with my relationship. Those are just too personal for me.

the thing I changed to my life is my attitude.My attitude when i am studying is really different now.I dont know why.Maybe I am already professional now i need to be mature enough.

I completely agree with you. All our life experiences have made us the people we are today. Since we cannot change the past or go back it is wasted time and energy to dwell on something that is impossible. However, if I were given a chance to go back I would want to retain the awareness of who I am today but go back as a young person with focus and understanding. I would play more sports and put more effort into school and making friends.

It is important to experience life and all its challenges and bumps along the way. It is what makes us to who we are today. I personally would like to go back and change a few things because I could have learned those lessons in a different way, but I can't change the past or go back so it is what it is. Just accept the past for what it is, and greet each new day for the new oppurtunities and learning experiences that come.

i would change how well or not well i did in school

Nope; anything and everything I"ve ever done I wanted to do at that moment and it"s made me who I am today. The shadow of the past should not always be taken with you; the faster you shed it better for you. I always live in the present moment. The lessons that you learn from the past though can be analyzed threadbare and made applicable in the present.