blind date

China
April 24, 2012 7:15pm CST
i kept blind dating these years, especially in this year, big stress from my parents hit on me, they even ask me to get married with a strange person, a sailer, who need to on board for ten monthes a year, i cannot endure any more, how about leave my hometown to find a new job, live a new life in another city, parents live far from me then i will do things as i like to.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
That's tough but don't worry everyone goes through it alive. I am now in my 30's and people around me have been persistently asked when I'm going to get married or when will we have a bundle of joy. I know it's tough because I can't really do anything about it. It's not good to force someone for marriage and they're not helping by pressuring us to settle down as well. I think you should just laugh about it. I would just tell them that I don't know as well. Further, don't think too much of it, perhaps your parents are just worried that you'd be alone (most parents are most especially if they love you so much anyways). No need to be far from them. Just open your options or let them understand that it just hasn't come yet and don't let them worry. There's no perfect formula to love but you need to help fate by getting involved a little bit with the hunting. Perhaps by smiling more and going out with friends instead of just keeping to yourself. Enjoy your singlehood and have a great MyLot experience ahead!
• China
25 Apr 12
i will sit down and talk with them, i will get married only when i get my right person, even my collegues all have baby, neighbours and relatives gossip little matters me, and hope so do them. to be honest, i havenot be ready to start a couple life.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
Indeed. Nobody should be forced to marry because it will only end up in a bad relationship yielding bad children. I think we don't need more bad relationships in the world.
• India
5 Oct 12
Just keep on dating until you found a person that qualifies your standards. Don’t let anyone tell you on what type or kind of person that you want to live in forever. You have now the right to decide by your own because you are mature enough. Try to live without your parents in for them to realize that you can stand by your own.