What will be your reaction ?

India
April 25, 2012 8:22am CST
Today my brother in law told to my wife that I have described me as "Single". So my wife was asking for this. I told her that when I create my Id that time I was unmarried and from long time I have not changed this. And no one other reason for that. And I love and in relationship with you only. And in future I have no intention or thought for any one else. My question to all Mylotters to tell if this one happen with you. How you all of you will handle this situation if your lover/Husband/Wife will get to know ?
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11 responses
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
there must be a lot of things that she was thinking at the moment as to why you haven't changed your status. but you cant blame her but also i cannot judge you because you have made the account a very long time ago and that you just didn't get the chance to change it. i hope you and your wife are okay now
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
glad to hear that.
• India
28 Apr 12
Ya Cherish. Everything is ok now.
• India
25 Apr 12
If you don't use facebook much and therefore didn't remember to change your status there it is fine, but if you use it daily then I think you should have changed it then only. And it is fine on your wife's part to question you about your marital status being single on facebook even after being married. Well, I think you should change it now, which you have mentioned in your reply to the previous post that you have. It is nice to know that you care about your partner's feelings. Have a married life!
• India
25 Apr 12
Thanks Inderjeet Kaur. Some time we omit to do the necessary task and when something happens with us than we realize that we done done a mistake. But every person will learn from his/her mistakes. I hope that I will take care of such things in future to avoid any kind of relationship problems.
• India
30 Apr 12
Yes, that's true that we learn from our mistakes. But honestly speaking not everyone does so. It's good to know that you did it. I am you will not let any problem knock in to your relationship. Take care.
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
26 Apr 12
Well, that kind of thing never happened to me.. But, for your wife, I can feel her heartache. What I suggest to do is, try to explain once again. Prove her that you love her. Maybe she will get over it eventually..
• India
26 Apr 12
Thanks for your suggestion. But now every thing is ok.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
I have not experienced such a situation. But if I'm in your place, I have changed my status long time ago from the time I got married. Since you have not changed yours, your wife had the right to know your reason why.You are already committed to her and her alone.
• India
26 Apr 12
Ya definetly she has the right to ask anything from me. And I told her the truth.
@toniganzon (72551)
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
If that account is in active then i don't see any problem my husband not changing his status. But if it's still active and he didn't change it i would feel a little bit bad. I would think that he's not proud to say that he's married to me or he doesn't want anybody to know that he's already married.
• India
26 Apr 12
What a heart touching feeling you have. I can definetly say you are just love yuor husband from heart and your husband will feel proud to be with you. Thanks.
@krizzy (237)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
If that happen to me, I will just tell my partner the truth..If you don't hide anything, you won't be afraid to tell her the truth..simple as that:p
• India
26 Apr 12
Great thinking.
@celticeagle (169853)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Apr 12
There are some things we just don't think about. I can understand how this can happpen. I Have had trouble with my insurance because I had moved a couple of Summers ago and thought I had changed it. It has been going to the other address. I had called and changed the address but they didn't put it in the computer. I didn't know it and was missing getting important information.
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
First of all, never lie about your stats. Second of all, be ready to face the consequences of your actions. Don't lie again if you are caught lying.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
25 Apr 12
No it's never happen to me. Are you saying your wife now wants to know why you have still not changed your status to married now? I would wonder about that too. Can't you just change it now so she wouldn't have to wonder. It is a simple way to show you you really are in the relationship with her only, it won't harm anything right? It will make her feel better and thats what you're supposed to do in a relationship, make each other feel better and happier.
• India
25 Apr 12
Hi Nail. Actually that thing never came in my mind about to change my status in Face Book. Although I have not any kind of intention to make relationship with other girl. But the mistake I think I have done is not changed my profile status. Now I have changed my status to "Married". Thanks for response.
• United States
25 Apr 12
o that's just weird i just would of told her when i said this and that's that
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
You have a lot of explaining to do to your wife but I can guess it can't be settled by making her understand that you do not know much about facebook navigation.