She is nice to me but.............

I think you should talk to your girlfriend. it doesn't have to end up on a fight. there is nothing to fight about anyway. you just need to have a talk about her attitude. that is not nice to be acting like that towards other people. what do you expect, she wouldn't do the same thing to you when she becomes too comfortable? if you talk to her then she will be aware of her actions. she doesn't seem to know she is doing something wrong because no one talks to her about it and she is always with her friends. you are her boyfriend and you are there for her, to make her become a better person.

Oh, it's difficult for you to go there. If you're going to say something bad about those people, you'll sure have war between you. However, if she's being influenced by these people you need to tell her that she's changing before it does affect your relationship. Perhaps you could help her find another job. A new job wouldn't hurt. Perhaps you could suggest that since she doesn't have promotions, it would be best for her to spread her wings or something like that. Remember, if you start to defend those being bullied, she might view it that you're against her and all the drama goes flying out. But there's still hope because you're living together harmoniously. Anyhow, it's really your decision. But if you love her, you need to step up and tell her if she's wrong. If she loves you, she will listen to you. I had a similar experience with my partner. I just thought he was becoming a snob and I talked to him about it. Yes, there was a huge fight, but I explained to him calmly why I thought so. I was technical, in a way that I showed him the effects of his actions to his bosses and possible promotions. I don't know if he completely agreed but I know that I hit a button somewhere. I guess with us together for so long, he's bound to listen because his love for me is deep. Now, in your case, are you prepared to lose her? People wouldn't take advises easily. They would always think that you don't love them that's why you're saying those words. But you should be firm. Before telling her the problem, show her first. Like talk to her about a friend or something in the same scenario, assume a story related to her attitude and ask her what she thinks bout that situation, then if she agrees that the girl needs to be disciplined, then tell her that she's close to becoming that person. Perhaps that could work. It's up to you, you know her better and you know how to talk to your partner better. Good luck! Do give some updates afterwards. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!

You said she used to be very sweet and charming to everyone, but do you know why she are changed like that? You should find out that reason to solve problems. I think her character is not changed, she is still she, just something happens, and her acts are different when comparing with the previous time. You just see the outside, then just blame her and go to decision by yourself, it is not really fair with your girl. Sometime you should ignore a small thing to make both you guys are happy when living together. If you just point out her faults only then say good bye is very soon.

It could definitely be the people she's hanging around, especially if you say she used to be very nice and sweet. Maybe she doesn't realize that she's changed so drastically. If the two of you are comfortable with talking to each other about anything, then I would say (very very nicely of course) how you've noticed a change in the way she treats other people. But if you think she'd take it the wrong way and make a big deal about it, then try and avoid the subject. I'm not sure what else to do that would help. If you tell her how she's acting then maybe she'd want to make a change and surround herself with people who don't act so childish. Because if she keeps treating people that way, people aren't going to like her very much and I'm sure it would make you sad to see that happen to her. Good luck and I hope you're able to work things out somehow

you're in a complex situation my friend... If you try to talk to your gf about how she treat other woman, she will think that you have a feeling for that other woman, and things can get nasty for you. Maybe you can search some info about the dirt of each person in that group example: If they talk about your gf behind her back, try to record that secretly, and send the voice to your gf but use anonymous identity, like send her through anonymous emails. Then use them to break the group but don't get caught that you're behind all of that

You should try to tell that to your girlfriend. Open up with her and tell her why she's acting that way. Maybe there is a reason why she is acting that way. Tell her that you don't approve of her attitude lately. Do it sincerely without being very mad so that she will understand and take what you say in consideration.

I think you should tell that to your girlfriend. That attitude can get you enemies and it's not what we wanted. Try to dig deep why she's doing that and after weighing things, try to let her understand why it isn't the best thing to do. Try to talk and figure things out and hopefully she will change.

Hiya Captain Please keep you personal life away from office. As you mention on the discussion - this girl is nice to you, cares for you and loves you too. Now what she does at office or between friends is her personal jurisdiction and your interference here would only complicate the matters between you and her - which would be worse. I hope you would agree with me that we are all individuals and have our own identity - trespassing those areas would not be appreciated by all. So just be careful on this aspect.

yeah, sometimes friends can be bad influence... so people should choose their friends well. Why don't you voice out your opinion- or introduce her to some better girls.. If she gets angry then stop..

Have you tried talking to her about that? Wh don't you open up and tell her how you feel.

Hello friend, I think at first you should talk to your girl friend about the matter. I think it is big problem. If you don't talk this thing with each other then it is bad for your relationship. I think it will help you. Have a nice day.

ehh.its hard to offer you some perfect ideas,just becsause your confuse is about love. you know ,love is a most diffcult and unlimited topic in our life,we usualy find it by mental feelings,in other words ,its untouched,only use our hearts. so,no matter how enthusiastic love you had before,please calm down now ,and think carefully ,love is not equal to the marriage.