When are the better days coming?

I agree that having a positive attitude helps our situation. But if it were easy to have a positive attitude the majority of the time most of us wouldn't be having such a hard time in the first place. I have felt exactly as you described. And sometimes I wonder if I'm ever going to get out of that rut. When things are that hard and difficult for me I try to take things one day at a time. I try to go out for example to the park and really think about what is important to me and the things I want to accomplish in my life. I know that difficult times are still ahead of me, so I have to do the best I can. Doing this keeps me from making rash decisions. I hope that your situation starts to look up for you, because I know how awful it can feel not being able to see any positive aspect of what we are going through.

Yeah. Life is full of ups and downs. One should have a positive view of life, not to be so happy when top and not so sad when down.In the way of achieving one's goal, one should work hard and don't be discouraged when meeting with difficulties. We should do what we ought to do and pray to God to help us in what we can't and God will help us . Thank God .HE is our kind father. HE will help his children.

some take a longer time to come, but hey... better days... they always do come. as much as i would like to channel my positive attitude in every single time that i feel down, i have to be honest that it can be exhausting at times. draining even. sometimes challenges, like quicksand, the more you kick out of it... the more you dig yourself in deeper. and if you don't do anything about it... you'll still sink yourself in. ohh well. literally and figuratively speaking... i hate the dark. i hate being in the dark. i hate being enveloped in darkness or falling into one. i have learned my lesson a long time ago... that if i want myself out of the dark, i should always carry with me a light of some sort. something i could hold on to when i'm about to give up. something that would lift me up when i'm down. something that would help me get thru all those hurdles life may throw at me. i hope you find yours. when i was in so much pain, i wanted to give up right there and then. it was an easier route. but something snapped me out of a looming darkness, woke me up from the nightmares. and then there was hope. and then the realization that there really are better days. we just have to have the strength to hold on until it comes, because it will. it's there. cheer up...

I honestly believe that the only time that the light at the end of the tunnel isn't there is when you don't have a positive outlook on things. Right now I am going through one of the toughest times in my life for a lot of different reasons, but I still know that there are better times that are coming. We are going to be out of debt before too long and I've pretty much helped my husband through the worst of the withdrawal from pain medication, so things are getting better, though we don't see the improvement as quickly as we'd like to.

Well, it is what i feel now also. I really don't know when is my better day coming. sadness, worry, sorrow is all my mood now. I feel it is just all grey in front of my eyes. Waiting, waiting makes me tired. I just wish time is gone faster, night is gone faster...and hope tomorrow is my nice day, but no, today is still my bad day, i am not sure tomorrow will be nice day. Why i am so tired with my life like this time.

It"s is always difficult to rise on your feet and move on with your life. Every morning of every day is difficult, but then again, this is the only way to have a decent lifestyle. We must always remember to be brave. Living a life as a coward is not worth living at all !!

It may be a recession but it can't take away the sunshine, the fresh air and seeing the wildlife. It gives me much joy to see a swan swimming on the river or a blackbird having a bath in a puddle. I like to feel the warm sun on my back when it happens. If sad I recommend a day out to somewhere relaxing or interesting. Like it could be to a beach, park or museum for example. I like to tidy and clean my bungalow to feel I have had a successful time. I enjoy taking my dogs out for a walk. Having a trip overseas is my top hobby. Good luck feeling better days to come.

yeah..sometimes I feel that too..it's like you get harder to breath and you're slowly drowning to the different types of problems you are going through..but in the end you will realize that prayer is the most powerful thing you can do..you will see that God is bigger than our problems..all we need to do is have a little faith!:)