Single parenthood?
By daisy_dion
@daisy_dion (315)
Philippines
April 27, 2012 8:50am CST
Its not easy. If only I can ask a man to help me to take care of my baby. Being alone make me always stress. What shall I do?
3 responses
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
29 Apr 12
Single parenthood is not easy but it is easier than if you had a nasty partner. You are the sole decider of the rules and each age range has its challenges. A young baby needs round the clock care which can be exhausting all on your own. When your child is a toddler you need eyes in the back of your head it can feel like. I recommend meeting up with other parents that have a child the same age as yours. How old is your baby or child? It isn't easy to have a boyfriend that will able to take care of you and your baby. I think if you loose some of your stress you will manage much more happily being a single parent. I suggest a day out or a meet up with a friend. Good luck.
@thechans (79)
• United States
27 Apr 12
Hello friend, I'm sure it is very hard being a single mom. I know that all the responsibility falls in your lap and that it gets lonely sometimes. I don't know if this will make you feel any better, but it's not always easier when there is a man there. My husband has never been much help and I end up taking care of my child and him. Sometimes I feel like a single mom with two kids..lol. I'm laughing, but it's true. The right man will come along, but the most important thing is not to grab onto the wrong one, because that will just make things worse. Try to enjoy the experience of being a Mom, and the rest will come. Good luck to you.
@AsianBelle (75)
• South Africa
27 Apr 12
I'm sure it isn't easy at all to bring a child up on your own. It's even more difficult without the support and help of family. Personally, if I had to be in your situation, I would try my best to do it on my own, because the last thing I want is to depend on a man to take care of me and my baby. Again, it's the way I am and I don't expect anyone else to be like me.
That said, how old is your baby? Have you tried going out with some friends, just to enjoy yourself for a night? Maybe that can help you release some stress.