am i only the one who feel this?

Yeah I agree with you. It is easier to deal with the challenges of life when we know that we are not alone. It is very hard to cope with all the varies challenges by one's self. That why having a support group is such a beautiful thing. Having close individuals that we can really open up to.

It's always great to have someone around. We all want some company, and I for one doesn't like the idea of being alone. That's normal. Don't worry. :)

At the end of the day, one would should learn the importance of being able to stand on his/her own feet without relying much on others, as there it is an intricate phase in our lives to deal things on our own as it defines who we are, what we are and what we are made of. In times of trials, it is best to seek guidance spiritually and emotionally, but the sole responsibility of facing these trials lies within us.

Hi ifa With wifey away for 3+ months now (on job) I am all alone and though I enjoyed the loneliness some years ago (before marriage), right now, the loneliness is worse and I often get mad at myself. It is always better to have your partner by your side in almost everything

Hello friend, No friend you are not only one who feels this. I also feel this. So my lover with me in everytime. He is also my good friend. I think you also try to do it. Have a nice day.

Yup house chores suck.But it's a part of a household obligation.How about trying to share the chores?It's kinda tiring to take all chores to your self.Tell them about how you feel and if they don't do it stop doing all the chores until they realize it's not that easy.And chores can make you active,it's kinda like a light exercise,i think.

Hi ifa! Short answer to your question is - Many of the women feel like you that they are managing the house hold affairs and errands all by themselves and they hate it when they are required to do it on regular basis.

I always do all my work alone. Sometimes, I really want, there are people who can help me. But, I do have to resolve themselves. I also, have to face all the trials of my life alone. I really hope, someone besides me, and give encouragement to me.

You must perform all your duties, with sincerity, and be happy. That way, you will not feel hard, even if you do all your task alone. By complaining, and feeling overwhelmed, you will feel hard, do all your work.

I am sure that having someone around helps a lot. You don´t have to be with the other person all the time, but it is so good to know that you are not alone in everything. It gives a meaning to yuor efforts.

where is your husband?? i think you should consult with your husband about it..

Hi Ifa.... I hate house chores too especially mopping the floor and ironing those pile of clothes. I really glad I don't have to do it every day. Yeah when we had problem its feel really good when you had someone beside you. Its feel heaven when they can help but its already really helpful when their hear your problem and give you a hug and said every thing will alright.

Me too :( I also feel so tired when I do boring and difficult jobs by myself like chores. ((I'm so glad I have a sister to share happiness and burden :])) ~but if I really have to do things alone (like when my sis is at school) have some upbeat music around. And add a little game to the chores.. You might think I'm crazy but whenever I sweep the floor I imagine it a game where the broom has to cover the whole floor or else its game over for me xD lol If there are someone else with you at home, you can ask them to schedule out when you can help each other.. Since things are faster and (if you're close with them) more fun that way. Hope these help Ifa :)

Hi ifa how are you doing? I have started doing those household chores for some months without anyone help. I wish to do it by me itself. If someone helps me I would become lazy lol.

I also feels the same. I feel well bored to do the things alone but when my cousins or my friends are beside with me I feel them as quite simple and I am able to do them easily with short period of time.