when is the right time and with whom?
By daniel_chang
@daniel_chang (75)
Philippines
April 28, 2012 11:53pm CST
I had painful experience about love and suitors are still coming. actually i am single and i think that i don't want to have any intimate relationship right now. There is this engineer from old school courting me, one police applicant, one nurse graduate from college school, two ware my ex-boyfriends and one that i was with since i can remember.
They are all good, neat, nice, hard working, presentable and we(each of them) get together just fine. they are religious specially the police applicant.
But when will you say that it is the right time and to whom will you give your heart to?
At our age i think its time for us to take things seriously, i mean no more fooling around and no more cheating. Men now a days are becoming less masculine (no offense) some has relationship with same gender and some are just playing around while there partners are serious, Same with the females.
Any comments, discussions, opinions and advices that you can share?
5 responses
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
no one knows for sure when will be the right time and who will be the right person. at least it is good to know that you are aware of what you are going through. and it seems that you have learned your lessons in the past relationships. i think you now know what to do. just enjoy the singlehood, and have faith that things will come in the proper time.
@daniel_chang (75)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
I know that asking question in this site won't earn you something but i am here to learn. When will you think that the right time is the right time? How will you know?
Yes i have really learned from my past love affair. I come to realize that why have i not chose to experience these things, enjoy things and learned or even master the art of love before. I admit i am happy now but still playing the safety mode we really don't know when will be the right RIGHTS.:)
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
The good thing about my life is that I didn't have a lot of suitors, there had been no problems choosing because it could only be one. hehe..
Anyhow, as for the right time, you are the only one who would know that and with whom, it your choice too.
I actually laughed when you said that men are no longer very masculine these days. Not only that, but they're no longer 'patient' with courting someone. They want answers now and they will never wait.
I think one tip in choosing would be, when you are asked who, who's the one who's name or face flashes in your mind first? hehehe...
Anyhow good luck! There are no wrong choices if you're honest with your heart. Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
@charorach23 (55)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
the right time? ...TODAY
with whom?... with JESUS
as the bible says, "seek you first the kingdom of God and His righteousness; ask and it shall be added unto you..."
God will definitely give answers to your questions if you'll place Him on top of your search list... :D
@shrike (123)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
hi! for me, we do not know when and where is the right time about everything, you just don't know, it is already there. you yourself will only decide if what it is. i think, we can feel one's person's feeling, i mean, we can feel whether their intentions are good. most of all, ask the Devine's giuidance. He only knows what is best for us. if you are not yet ready then maybe, it is not yet the right time, but if you are ready for all of the consequences that your decision may bring,, then maybe you could say it is time for you to accept one of them.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
29 Apr 12
If you are not ready for a new commitment why you start this discussion? It's useless to start something new and there is nothing wrong with being single. This besides of the fact most people have bad experiences if it comes to love.
I don't think men are less masculine most are dominant and agressive and women don't like that at all.
