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It depends how close I am to my neighbor. If I have been good friends with them for years then I would tell the non-cheating partner. If they were neighbors that I barely know and I just happened to find out I wouldn't say anything. It's sometimes better to not get involved in situations like that.

Hello there jcvee2009.. Well, even though me and my neighbors are close.. I wouldn't butt in into their family business.. I wouldn't there tell them what I know, why? I don't wanna get the blame and I don't wanna say something that I might be accused as bearing false witness.. I think it's better if the other partner would be the one to actually know the situation.

My first reaction if is I would say is I would tell it to her husband. But on the second thought, I would think of the whole situation first if its going to be good or not to tell. Sometimes, it is not okay to be start of bad news.

I remember my husband told me he knew his friend cheated on her husband and he intended to tell him he said that's what friend for, to take care each other and he expect the same from him if it's his position he wants somebody tells him. The matter is the way we should tell him. That's my husband, and I do agree with him but me personally I think I will just be quite and think that it's none of my business

That's happening right now, with one of our neighbors, but I didn't do anything. The guy is my husband's officemate, and we often see him eating out with another girl. I asked my husband about it, and he wouldn't comment much. He said, we just have to stay out of it. It's their problem, so let them fix that. I feel sorry for the wife, who has no clue of what's going on. It also got me thinking, what if the same thing is happening with my husband.

I believe that it is best not to get involved in other people's personal/intimate affairs, no matter who it is. I had an experience where I once told a friend about her cheating boyfriend...well, I ended up to be the bad guy and she stayed with him. So as a golden rule, I just don't get involved and would not say anything.

Hi Jcvee, That's a pretty sketchy situation and one of those things that I wish I didn't see or know anything. As a rule, I just pretend that I saw nothing and know nothing. I don't like to get into other people's personal business and I really don't like being the one to inflict pain on another person which is what ratting the husband out would do. I figure if he's being open enough about it that I can see what is going on then it is only a matter of time before she catches on. If I care about the person then I will just be here for moral support when that happens and it usually does. I do understand why someone might feel obligated and I would be a bit torn on that one but in the end, I always opt to just stay out of it.

I guess it would depend.If I knew her husband well and considered him a friend then I would. But otherwise I would stay out of it. It could lead to trouble if I'm not close to them and I stick my nose in their business. He will more than likely find out himself.

No I would not tell him. I believe that people should mind their own business. Relationships are complicated at the best of times and don't need interference from others outside of the relationship. Chances are you don't know everything this is going on, or every side of every story. Besides, sometimes things are not always as they appear. It's best to let them deal with their own problems and find things out on their own.

No, it is not your business. You don't know the psychological makeup of the husband, or even the wife. It might turn into a row and someone might get hurt. The best thing to do when there are marital squabbles between husband and wife it is better that you not get involved. And don't get involved with the cheater and his family also; you might potentially have ruined some lives.

If you are very close and friendly with him,you can definitely inform him.There is no harm.If he is not informed then how will he know. You are doing a good thing by informing.