Anger is the most dangerous of all emotions.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
Philippines
April 30, 2012 9:16pm CST
Are you still angry at someone and what do you feel?You know what is your feeling when you are angry at someone.
I know that and feel in the same.Anger is the most dangerous of all emotions.If you are so angry at someone,you almost do something bad at them.You can see,some people killed,fight it is because their anger inside ,hidden in side of their heart..
Friend,you do not have benefits on it,there is nothing but only creates bad deeds to others..You must forgive,even Christ forgiveth us..
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19 responses
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
1 May 12
anger is the poor quality of all of us.
we will always find a kkavo to hurt anything to irritate and so forth.
but you know when there is anger and resentment and pain and that's not good.
it is best that we can suppress this anger itazi pain because you will live much better and will be happy and most importantly to forgive because when there is an error and forgiveness.
interesting discussion!
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Thanks,if you hide anger inside,you will be at risk.Face the bad health because it cause on that.
Much better to forgive,and love the person and less in problems.
@vandana7 (100282)
• India
1 May 12
I agree..but I think we all need to feel angry sometime. If we didnt feel that way, we would be indifferent to holocaust, or Pearl Harbor. Pain, fear, anguish, and anger are undoubtedly negative. But without them we are not whole. Without them, we are not human.
What I feel is, it is wrong not to be annoyed at some wrong. It is wrong not to oppose wrong. It is wrong not to get angry. The extent of anger depends.
Then again, at times conditions such as physiological situation, social conditions, and psychological condition can make a person seem unusually more angry. It is merely a manifestation of something that is beneath that needs to be addressed. So merely looking at the disease symptoms and saying it is bad is not enough. It is necessary to know the underlying cause. For all that we know, the person who got angry was justified - was pushed to an edge and was not getting enough support from the society for what he or she deserved. How can we blame such a person when we fail them. First we need to correct ourselves before saying that the other person is wrong, isn't it?
@vandana7 (100282)
• India
2 May 12
It is the control that does not work. If we dont like it, we should be in a position to say we dont like it. If we are forced to adjust or be polite and bottle up inside, it creates the anger. So the root cause needs to be identified and something should be done about it..with hammer and tongs if necessary. :)
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Every body got's angry.And if the uncontrolled anger,worse anger i think there is something bad that already create inside of the heart.Like planning to kill someone,create a hatred and that's worse.
Nothing wrong to be angry,because we are human,but we must control,forgive others and learn to accept that every body makes mistakes..
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Well it is dangerous especially if you have problems handling it.. like in a spur of a moment you get angry easily that is quite dangerous... but i also believe Jealousy is also a dangerous emotions, from there a lot can be provoked.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Yes i am sure it is dangerous it's the feeling of hatred ,and is like fire inside burning up all your body.
But i learn to control now.
@anangf (1146)
• Indonesia
1 May 12
some said anger can be a positive thing in different manner. anger for ourself maybe can help us act better in further. give spirit to be better next time. i mean no anger for satisfaction because some other fault.
if i may choose, i rate cheating as the lowest thing..
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
It's to learn,anger is not better attitude yes some say it is.But is not,it worse if you don't control it.
There is anger ,because we are human,but we don't need to over anger,because you will risk your self and others..
@butterscotsh (1012)
• Philippines
2 May 12
I m a little angry at someone right now but
I'm not the kind of person who takes actions
to a person no matter how angry I get.
Yes I think it is the most dangerous emotion
but I cannot do anything about it. Even if I'm
angry right now, I don't do anything about it.
I don't even tell it to the person I'm angry at.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Nothing wrong to be angry as long as you don't do any bad to them,and also we have the right to be angry at good thing.
But true,you did in control even you are angry.
@viji_v2 (727)
• India
1 May 12
One of our great poet named Bharathiyar said 'LEARN HOW TO GET ANGER'. It was the time of freedom fight and getting anger and showing opposition was essential during that period.
I agree 'anger' is not good. But in some situations it is needed. The worst thing in anger is we should not spill words while we are in anger. It will create irrevocable problems.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Nothing wrong to be angry,but not do in worse.Like you are filled of hatred,and so angry and want to do bad things and that is not good.
We are to learn how to control it and even me i learn too.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Hello bfrindwithme, you're right anger is a very powerful emotion, there are a lot of people become angry because of the bad things that's happened in their lives.but somtimes anger can makes us irrational and uncontrollable, that's why we need to be more in control with regards to this. there's always the rationale explanation before going outburst. controlling anger is the best way to avoid confrontations.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Yes agree,there are things in life that makes us angry and also people.But those can't help,it's a challenge for us to control it and not anger to control our self.
I do experience this kind of situation,and so bad attitude but now i learn.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
1 May 12
Well there are many dangerous emotions out there and rather anger can be up there. However, what is worse? Someone who raves and rages, but actually does not do anything other than shout until they are red in the face or the person who is calm, looks happy, and just silently stabs the person right in the chest, without a second thought.
Still anger cannot be healthy for many people a lot of the time. There are just times where our anger can really just lead us on a rather dangerous path, one where it is hard to recover from. That is rather why it is important to grab a hold of that anger, to really not really let it overwhelm us, rather not allow it to get the better of us, and to let it bubble to a point where we are frustrated. Anger is most certainly up there.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
2 May 12
It's affects your health problems if you have hide anger,hatred /it creates bad thing in your mind.
It is always to forgive ,control and let God will control it,and you allow also to overcome it.
I experience this before, and i know it feeling uncomfortably.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
1 May 12
I think getting angry is our natural instinct if someone hurts our feelings. Yes, we may say that if someone is angry anything can happen and sometimes the outcome are unimaginable. What I mean is by releasing that anger of ours.
I have that uncontrollable feelings too sometimes but as I grew older I have realized that it's not always right to show our emotion especially if we are angry. I guess the best thing we must do is to have control on our emotion. Think twice or ten times before doing anything.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Yes ,we learn from it.Even i,before i got angry so easy,it creates bad thing in my mind and also i feel sick later and also like so hard to breath inside ,and something feeling not good.
But now it lesser, i learn to control.
@cloud31 (5809)
•
1 May 12
I always can easily divert my mood when I feel a bit uneasy with somebody. I don't make myself feels like I will end up hating that person.
I don't keep grudge in my heart because I know its not healthy having it keep longer when its not necessary.
Thanks... Have a nice day!
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
That is true,it is unhealthy to have grudges to others and even have left hatred inside.
and we learn from it,and learn to improve.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
1 May 12
I don't agree with you. People have the right to be angry if they are treated bad. What you want is taking away that right, to take away their right to feel what they feel. Any idea how many people in this world try to hide what they feel? How many there are who are seriously sick because of that, need meds, get cancer, are depressed, have to visit doctors and shrinks etc?
We are not different from animals, human being is an animal as well. If you are angr, feel angry you hav to ask yourself why. If there is a good reason for it. If you need action/to do something so it won't (that situation) happen to you again. Hiding it, telling yourself you are not allowed to feel this basic feeling, you have to trust in god or whatever so one day it all will be fine is wrong. If you have brains you should use them. You have to live life and learn lessons and act/be active. Not just sit there hiding yourself, ignoring your feelings, accept it always and ruining your own health and happiness. There is nowhere written that you need forgiveness if you feel angry or you are a bad person if you feel angry.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Well,every one has the right to be angry ,and we are given mind how to control anger and its up to you if you voice out or not.
And i know that we are different,you express differently and me also.But i learn from my past for my anger,it worse more when i don't control it,and now i have more peace when i control.
I learn to accept,and ask God to change that emotion.
@dorothy172 (984)
• Malaysia
1 May 12
i agreed with you, anger really the most dangerous emotion in our life. when you angry of someone, you cannot control yourself and will done something to harm them. so everytime when i am in a anger situation, i must close myself in the room, if not most of the people come across me have to see my temper. so if possible, i will try my best to prevent angry of someone =) just always remember a sentence, when you are angrying someone, it is a punishment to yourself, because angry of someone we also will not feel happy at the end =)
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Yes,some people say it is better to be angry.But i don't know to them why they said,but for me is it damage the inside of your health if not forgiven and hatred left.
So it is good to have anger control to not worse.
@ravipors (80)
• India
1 May 12
Anger is dangerous. Yet there is another feeling that does more damage to ourselves and others and that is Hate. Anger comes and goes. This hate fills your soul and hurts from within.
Anger is the internal fire. But this hate is like fire in woods. It spreads and spreads its wing upon us. I think you are right, we should forgive and forget.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Yes,it's like fire the anger that you hide,and and creates inside.It destroy and it damage you if you don't leave it,forgive.
We learn from it,and me also i learn from that.
@Iynna12 (67)
•
1 May 12
I do agree with you that it is the worst emotion that can lead to bad side effects like heart attacks or insultsMy mother thinks that that feeling is best shown by polyglots. they want to show off that they can express all their emotions rightly. They are paid for that. She thinks i should not bother to do that and i should take care much more about my facial expressions. I have very small mouth and do not smile at all. But it might happen to help having a bigger one.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
2 May 12
Yes bad effect in our life for sure.but it's to learn and also we are to take care the situation.
And hope everything work okay.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
1 May 12
hi befrindwithmne nope not angry anynmore but I read your discussion
and realized how often angry people do really evil things. If one cannot control his or her anger he or she needs to get mental help;
before their anger gets them into serious trouble. I often count to one hundred before even speaking and this helps me to control my anger and also to be logical instead of emotional.Yes Christ taught
us to turn the other cheek for a very good reason.You are right, it
is a dangerous emotion.thanks for a good heads up discussion.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Yes ,good way ,to keep away from anger counting.It's true ,sometimes if we are out of control,there is things to happen.
Destroys,hated,and etc.So we learn from everything that cause from anger,and we are lesser that emotion
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Anger begets anger, creates rage and inability to control our actions. It is an intricate emotion as it tends to create hate and all the negativity that comes with it. More than often, there is always a possibility of being blinded of what is humane and what is true, and i quite agree that is a dangerous emotion.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Yes agree it creates hatred ,negative to other people.It's so bad attitudes,and not feeling great.
It's bad deeds because of anger.
Anger does not help ,nothing yo benefits but will be at risk.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
1 May 12
Angry is the one of the biggest and the powerful weapon which can break the relation and which can turned into enemey. It can also have the ability to convert a beautiful garden into desert. This verifies or proves the power and strength of it. So we must have an control on such emotions, other wise it will hurt other people a lot.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Yes true,it's powerful emotions that breaks everything and destroy.It creates bad deeds,actions to others.
It is hatred ,and so bad,so we must learn and to control it.Does not help ,but always destroys.
@yel812 (174)
•
1 May 12
I don't know about that. A lot of people deed bad things to me, I do not hurt anyone unless they hurt me first, I really want to have my revenge. I think people who said that you must forgive and forget and move on are the people who did something bad to others and they do not the feeling of the people who have been hurt.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Does not mean that if the person say must forgive is the person who done,well every person in the world done things bad,so we must accept that we sin,and angry,think other negatives.Is not only to one person who done mistakes but every one.Learn from what you've done,even you are not angry at someone,but learn to forgive no matter things you do in bad way,even your self,we must forgive because God forgive us and how much more us ,and why not forgive.
@Tamosree1993 (1525)
• India
1 May 12
Hello friend,
Yes you are right. I also agree with you about the matter. It is a big problem of mine. I don't controlle it in every time.
Have a nice day.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
1 May 12
Thanks, i am also agree with you,when we don't control our anger ,there is hatred inside of our hearts.enjoy.